A short YouTube video by dating coach Anwar White (13 years’ experience) outlining five types of men who commonly pursue plus-size/curvier women and offering practical dating-location advice and cautions. The coach lists: 'Jimbros' (muscular men), 'black eyes' (racial group noted), older men (20+ years older), men half the size, and tall skinny/gamer men (recommended). He also warns against certain men (Jamaicans, married men, fetishizers, military, plus-size men with internalized fatphobia) and ends with a CTA to book consultations and comment.
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Hey girl, my name is Anmar Wide. I've been a dating coach for 13 years. There's so many plus size women that come to me and they're like, boy, put me on. I need to know how to get my life in these dating streets. And so I want to actually highlight the top five kinds of guys that are checking for curvier or plus size women so that we can be more focused and strategic in this dating game. Alright ladies, so let's get started. So number five girl, the Jimbros. I'm not talking about guys that are just like kind of like in shape. I'm talking about the stocked guys, right? Muscle, muscle, muscle, muscle. Why? Girl, I don't know, I think that they like, they want to do a few sets when they're at home or what I hear and the research says is they like the dichotomy and the contrast of more cushion and maybe they're super hard here but you have to be aware of they got some small Ds so you want to be aware of that. So when you're in the gym, girl, flirt with the biggest of the big because they're going to probably be checking for you. Okay, number four, black eyes. Now I'm not going to go into a lot of depth here because it could get really racialized and I don't want to get canceled. But black eyes are checking for you, point blank, period. Okay, number three, guys that are 20 years plus older than you. Older guys love bigger, curvier women. I think that they're really looking for the totality of a woman. I don't know what else to say.
So they're probably checking for you and you probably know this already. So I'm probably not telling you anything that you already don't know. Number two are guys that are half the size of you. These guys are coming towards you because.
They are more accepting and in turn want to be accepted but are also looking at you as an individual and not just as an object but the number one guy that I want you to be checking for. Like this is when I hear that my curvier clients are talking to these kinds of guys. I know that they have a high chance of connecting with them and potentially getting into a relationship with them. Tall, skinny or lanky gamers, girl, that is your lane. I want you to know that if you got one of those guys, girl is game over. So what does that mean? Girl, you need to be at the Renaissance fairs, you need to be at GameStop. Girl, you need to be at Comic con and you need to be online on Twitch Girl gaming with these mofos. I know that when that happens you're gonna be in good shape. Yeah. So I hope this is helpful for you. There are also other guys that are checking for you but those are guys that you want to avoid. Jamaicans. Enough said. Married men. Enough said. Guys that hyper focus on just plus sized women. They're 80% of the time they're fetishizing you and also military guys which you already know. So also I just want to let you know and you probably know this don't get with plus size guys they are going to project their internalized fat phobia onto you and it's not going to be a great solution. I hope that this list was helpful. If y' all want to work with me definitely book a consultation call but let me know in the comments. What has your experience been in terms of navigating dating life and who have been the guys that have been checking for you?
