Thursday Tea 9-16-21

Hello, hello, hello, hello everyone. It's so good to meet you on this Thursday tea. Now you know I usually don't come in on here on Thursdays. I'm usually giving you Tuesday tea, but my Tuesday was really intense. For those that don't know me, my name is Anwar White. I am the CEO and founder of get your guy coaching. I am a dating and relationship coach and I help smart and successful women really get their guy, get into amazing committed relationships with high quality men by being themselves and really owning all of their power.

Why am I here on Thursday? Like I was saying before, I usually come on here on Tuesdays, but I have to tell you guys. So my kids are in this new private school, it's this trilingual international school where they are, you know, basically speaking French and English and German. And it was a parents night and they literally kept me there until 9:30 and I was supposed to be there until 9 and then come and do my tubesday tea, but I wasn't able to do it. It unfortunately. So that's why I missed Tuesday. But I'm here on Thursday now with you all so we can talk about life, talk about relationships, talk about who you are. Right.

So why am I on tonight? What is really going on? I have been doing a lot of research and what I've been doing over the past couple of days is I've actually been accumulating all of the hundreds of clients that I've worked with and really understanding what those patterns have been so that I can come to you tonight and I can talk about what sort of patterns happen with what sort of person. And I'm doing this because I think it's important for you to understand if you are a certain kind of girl, what the actual struggles are, what we need to pinpoint so that you can achieve your love goals, right? What your triggers are so you know exactly why you may be feeling the way that you're feeling. Okay?

So that's what I want to do tonight. I want to go over my three girls and then after I go through them, I'll open it up for any questions that you may have, like I generally do for Tuesday tea. Okay? So I hope that that works well for you. Please. As I'm going through all of these different women, I want to see if any of this resonates with you. Okay? So if, if it does, let me know. Put something in the comments. This is me. I'm that girl. Please. You're snatching my wig. You're calling me out. I feel attacked. Right now, whatever it may be. Right? Because I want you to know what steps you need to take to achieve your levels. This is why we're having this session tonight.

I have three girls, three women that I generally work with and that I see are having some struggles when it comes to love, dating, and relationships.

The three of them I will call out. The first one is the nice girl. Girl. Right. The second one is the hard girl. And the third one is the hurt girl. Okay? So just put something in the comments if you feel like you may be one of these girls. Like we're all family here, you can just kind of speak your truth and no one's gonna judge you because we're all trying to figure it all out. Okay? So please, in the comments, let me know. Do you think you're the nice girl? Do you think you're the hard girl? Or do you think that you're the hurt girl? Right. Each one of these girls has their own strengths and their own opportunities to really help them get into an amazing relationships and get love. Okay? So think about that. Put it in the comments. Okay. I'm seeing some nice girls out there. Someone saying all of the above, Girl, I'm not taking that.

I guess what will happen is when I go through them, I think things will clear up a little bit more for you. Right? This is important because each one of these girls has different things that they need to work on. I'm seeing some hard girls out there. I was a hard girl. I'm very familiar with what a hard girl looks like. So I'm gonna go through all of them. And then let me know if you.

Are leaning toward one girl over another.

I'm gonna really go through it. I have a ton of notes here just in case I forget everything, because I want to really include everything. If you see my eyes going down here, it's not because I haven't studied for my test. It's because there's actually a lot of information in here. And I wanna make sure that I'm getting it 100% right, because this took hours to do. And I want to make sure I'm giving you all the information. Okay? Okay. So let's talk about the nice girl. Who is the nice girl? The nice girl is the people pleaser. Why is she a people pleaser? She is compensating for a deficiency that she thinks that she has, even though it might not be a deficiency in her head. She thinks I'm not lovable because of something. And because of that, I have to be nice to Everybody so that they will like me, okay?

That is not the way to go when it comes to love and relationships, right?

If you're the nice girl and you don't know that you are already whole and perfectly imperfect, then the person that you're kind of engaging with and trying to connect with is not going to be able to see you as a whole person as well. Right? This girl needs confidence. And confidence is a module in my program that really focuses on making sure that you're coming correct. Sorry. I'm getting text messages from my clients because they go on all of these dates, and I require them to reach out to me so we can do a date download after their date. So if you see me doing this, it's because all of my clients are going on all of these crazy, amazing dates.

Okay? Back to nice girl. Okay? So she needs confidence, right? She needs to embody what the confidence really is and what it looks like for her, right? Let's talk about communication from the nice girl. Okay? So how does she communicate?

She doesn't. She doesn't speak about how she feels and what she thinks. And nice girls don't do this because they don't want to rock the boat. They want to be considered Pollyanna nice girl. No drama, no contention, no anything, right? Unfortunately, the guy is going to feel that that is emotional dishonesty, and it will create disconnection because he can't trust that you will be truthful about how you feel, how you communicate, right? He's gonna. He's gonna go away. He's gonna leave. Once that happens. What does this mean? Mean, this means that this girl also needs to work on her vulnerability, right? Being able to speak up and also be vulnerable in those moments that you're feeling a certain kind of way and thinking a certain kind of way, right? This nice girl also apologizes for no reason, right? For example, if somebody knocks into her, she's the one who's going to say sorry, right? If there are any nice girls who do this, I want you to raise your hand.

Right? Or let's say you get disconnected on the phone, right? You call back and you say, oh, I'm so sorry, when it was actually technology that disconnected the phone. It wasn't your fault, right? Nice girl, right? We've got to take up space here and not feel like everything is your fault. Okay? So what does the nice girl think about men? Right?

She wants to please them. She's focused on them. The men are the first priority, right? She is focused on trying to just do for them. So that they stay happy. Right?

As my mom would say, wrongo dongo. Why is this a problem? Because as a woman, you need to be self centered in this love game. He actually wants to please you. But if you're so focused on trying to please him.

It'S like you're giving masculine energy. Because giving is providing and giving. Then it becomes a competition of giving, giving, giving. And if you're giving to him, he will either try to compete with you and try to out give you and then feel inadequate, or he's gonna make you his mother and become a teenager. Or a Peter Pan, as I like to call it. Right? We don't want that. We don't want that. Right?

What does a nice girl need so that she's not making him a priority and putting him on a pedestal? She needs boundaries. She needs to work on her boundaries. I got a module in that for my program. All right, nice girl. Yeah, let's talk about work. Let's talk about work. She's a hard worker. Why is she a hard worker? She's a hard worker because she thinks that people will like her based on her product, her work product, her work outcomes. Not because she's a naturally hard worker. She's just working hard so that people will like her work and therefore like her. Right? This is how she approaches work.

Yeah, we got to do something different.

I have a nice girl that I'm working with now. She works at Google and she literally has been trying to prove herself and working until the middle of the night, even though no one at Google does that. Right?

Because she wants to be liked even though she's already proven herself. Right.

I'm giving you patterns here. I'm giving you patterns. Okay, nice girl. Let's talk about how the nice girl thinks about dating and relationships. Okay? She's a hopeless romantic.

She's a hopeless romantic. And if we're being 100 honest here, maybe a little bit desperate, right?

And she's in a rush. She wants it done already. She wants the fairy tale, she wants the romance. She doesn't want to go through the journey. Right. She wants to live her love life as if it were in a movie. Right? Let's talk about sex for the nice girl. Okay? Sex is really important. And also because she's prioritizing the man so much.

She might not know fully what she wants in the bedroom. Right? She might not know what completely gives her pleasure because she's so focused on making sure that he's good, that he's happy, that he's satisfied. That he gets off. Right. That. That becomes the priority.

So we gotta switch that up. Right? Yeah. People are saying, why do you know me? I know you because I've worked with hundreds of women.

This is literally years and years of research what this looks like, because I know how to work with every woman to get them the results that they need to get them in amazing relationships within four months, plus or minus a month, depending on the region that you're in. That's why I know you. If you're feeling called out, if you're feeling like I'm really, really.

Checking for you and snatching your wig, that. That's why.

90% of my clients are in amazing relationships within three to six months of working with me. Roughly two thirds of them are either engaged or married within two years. Right. There's a reason for that. I know exactly what you need. So we do the specific strategic work to get you to your love goals. I'm not here to try to have you do anything and everything.

Here to be really focused on what exactly you need as a nice girl. Okay? Okay. So let's talk about the parental relationship for the nice girl.

Nice girls have issues with their mothers. They're overly critical mothers. Right. So if that's you.

You'Re the nice girl. If she continues to come for you, you're probably the nice girl. This is where you get your people pleasing from. Okay? Yeah, it's okay. We talk a lot about daddy issues, but there's significant mommy issues as well. Okay. So that is what I have for the nice girl. My nice girls. After I've gone through that, talk to me, who are nice girls now let me know. Heather's saying, I need you, girl. No, you don't need me.

You need to focus on the work that you need to do. Yeah, yeah. All of the answers that you feel like you need outside of yourself, you already have. Yep. I'm seeing some nice girls. Okay. Nice girls. I love you. I love my nice girls. Okay. All right. I'm gonna move on to the second girl. Okay.

Right. Nice girls. We need to be more assertive. This is about, like I said before, boundaries, vulnerability and confidence. We have to speak up. We have to speak up and, you know, speak our truth. Right. Because you have to give the man the roadmap to understand what's going on here. Right. We have to have the confidence enough to be vulnerable and know that you are going to act like for the right guy, he's gonna hold space for you when you need it emotionally. And he's not Gonna criticize you, right? Okay, I'm going to the next girl, which is the hard girl. Now, the hard girl is.

Very protected, lots of walls, lots of armor. She might be in a more male dominated industry in her career and she feels like it's her against the world. Right? Again, I am.

I was a hard girl.

Right? Okay, so why is she a hard girl? Let's talk about this, because this is really important and you probably know some hard girls in your life, right?

She's a hard girl because no one's ever been there for her and she's had to fend for herself, right? So because she's had to fend for herself, she has no trust in people, but especially men, right? This is important.

Because no one's been there for her. It's hard for her to ask for help. It's hard for her to allow people to do. For her to accept compliments, to receive gifts, any and all of that. These are really difficult things for her to do. So what you will see her do is actually do a lot for others, right? She's doing what she knows that she can't trust herself to actually receive. Okay, so what does she need? She needs to work on her vulnerability. She's got to let those walls down. She's got to trust herself to know that she's going to be okay when she shares that vulnerability. Right? Let's talk about her communication.

She's probably really good at her career and leans into it and she's very critical and that's what makes her good at her career. She can pick out all of the mistakes. All right, I see you, Cindy girl. Right? She can pick out all of the mistakes and make things perfect. Perfect. It's because she's always in judgment mode. She's always judging things. It's good, it's bad, it's good, it's bad, it's good, it's bad. Right?

She's not in acceptance mode. Judgment creates distance and disconnect when it comes to love and relationships.

We have to be in acceptance mode, accepting how people show up and making a conscious decision about whether you want to engage with that or not. Okay, so what does she need in terms of communication? She needs to learn how to speak and talk to men.

Module in my program. Okay. What is she, what does this hard girl think about men? Right.

She actually doesn't think a lot about them. She can give two shits about them actually. Right. But she likes to compete with them. She likes to knock them down a few notches because they think that they're, you know, God's gift to earth. Right. So she's already coming in super skeptic. Right. And her first inclination is I'm gonna compete with them and I'm gonna beat them.

Right. What does she need? She needs to be really clear about her energy and whether she wants to be dominant masculine energy or dominant feminine energy. Right.

That's module five of my program. Yeah. What about work? Like I told you before, she proves herself through hard work not because she wants to be liked, but. But because she takes her pride and her value is focused in her, in her work. Right? Yeah. What does the heart girl think about dating and relationships?

She wants it, but she doesn't believe that it can happen for her. And ultimately she thinks it's a waste of time. Right.

That, like, I'm not going to waste my time on these fools. Like they're ridiculous, they're losers, they're liars, they're pervs, they're flakes. You hear the judgmental tone coming out of her mouth when she's talking about dating and specifically dating men. Right. Let's talk about how the hard girl thinks about sex.

She likes it, it's physical, it's non emotional to her and she likes to focus on her own needs. She wants to get it done and get it done.

Right? Yeah. Someone saying, sounds like Megan thee stallion who said she likes to make men uncomfortable. She wants to compete, she wants to knock them down a few notches, right? Yeah. Yeah. Again, this is hundreds of women that I've worked with. Right. What I've known is that women will be in one of these boxes. Right. I'm trying to let you know that if, if I'm calling you out and you feel really exposed or seen right now.

Don't. Don't feel exposed. Realize that this is an opportunity. Right? This. I'm trying to give you information about what you need to focus on. Okay, let's talk about hard girl and her parental relationship that she needs to heal. It's probably her mother. Not because her mother was overly critical, but because her mother was not attentive to her needs, specifically emotional needs, but may also be physical needs, financial needs. Right.

Time needs attention. This is why she's hard.

And why it's probably easy for her to have guy friends. Okay, if that sounds like you, let me know where the hard girls are at. Hard girls. Hard girls. Hard girls. Hard girls. Hard girls.

Right?

Yes. Cindy. Oh my God, yes. Grew up with my dad girl, period. Yes. The heart girl Persona is a show because it's likely a trauma response from childhood. Yes, but I'm giving you more specific. What that childhood drama really is generally coming from unfulfilled emotional needs from mom.

Okay. Yeah. So what does the hard girl need? Let me kind of conclude she needs vulnerability. She needs to learn how to talk to men. She needs to get really clear about her masculine and feminine energy. Right.

All things within my program. Yes, girl. Yes, Mahogany mother. Wounds are real. Okay, so I've talked about the nice girl. We had some nice girls. Talked about some hard girls. I've had some hard girls. And I just want to let you know, a lot of my very. My very religious girls, they think that they're the nice girls, but they're actually the hard girls.

Okay. No shade, just tea.

All right. I want to talk about my last girl. This is my hurt girl. Okay.

My hurt girl is.

Someone who's really sensitive.

And through that sensitivity, she is misinterpreting the intentions of people, especially men. Right. She might also think that.

She'S done something wrong because she's not able to really understand.

The intentions of other people. Right. Was this person trying to hurt me, like, having a hard time reading people? And therefore, because she can't read someone, she thinks something's wrong with her. Right. Let's talk about how she. Why that is.

She plays small. Hurt girl. She plays small to ensure her safety, and she doesn't take up a lot of space. There are some similarities between her and the nice girl. The hurt girl is a little bit more emotional and can be triggered much more or easily. Right. Hurt girl doesn't trust herself in understanding relational dynamics.

This is why she needs to heal her inner child wounds, which is module eight of my program. Okay. She's got to clear that up.

How does she communicate?

She's quite emotional and has actually been shamed for her emotions that she's. It's too much. It's too much.

When you work with me, I want to let you know that I honor all of your emotions.

What I want to get clear about is why we're feeling the way that we're feeling.

One of my clients once said.

I feel like I'm over emotional. I said, girl, there's no such thing, girl. Come again? I don't understand. Try again. We're not doing that. Right. You get to be emotional. You get to have emotions about things. This will give you an indication of what's really going on inside. So my hurt girl, she's emotional like the nice girl. She doesn't say how she feels or what she thinks. Right. And she apologizes for no reason. So she needs work on the vulnerability. Right. But also because of the emotion that comes up in everyday situations. She's also going to need to learn how to manage her mindset. Which is module three of my program. Right? Yeah. Okay, so let's talk about how she thinks about men, because this is really important. The hurt girl thinks that men are dangerous and not to be trusted. She'll avoid them, she'll run away from them.

Because of past experiences. That's why she needs to truly understand men. Right.

Which is module four of my program. Because if you don't understand them, you're always going to be distrustful of them. You're always going to think the worst of them without understanding how they navigate this world, what they want and what they don't want. Right. To have clarity around that will give you an ability to trust yourself around them. Okay, let's talk about.

What she does at work. Now. I think that everyone has imposter syndrome, but I think it's really intense for the hurt girl. Right. It's either 0 or 100. There's nothing in between. And she may also have kind of adhd. Sorry, adhd. Adhd. Correct tendencies. Meaning like she might be able to focus in long periods of time on things that she loves and then not be able to focus at all for a while. Right. I'm seeing a lot of hearts come up.

Talk to me, heart girls, where are you? Hands up.

Okay, so those are my hurt girls. Yes. I see you loves.

Okay, so let's talk about how hurt girl thinks about dating and relationships. She is deathly terrified of it, but deep down knows that she yearns for it. Right.

And oftentimes she has a really hard time putting herself out there. Right? Yeah. The hurt girl will actually hold on to situationships a little bit more because there's not a lot of responsibility involved. Because when there's a lot of responsibility involved, it becomes real. And she can't deal with a real dating situation and a real relationship just yet because she doesn't trust herself and she doesn't trust men ultimately. So that's the stuff that needs to get healed. Right. Let's talk about how the hurt girl engages with in terms of sex. Okay. Sex is a way for her to.

Connect with men, but also numb the pain. It's a sense of power and control about being around men without the emotional intimacy involved. So her mind is completely gone when it comes to sex, right? Yeah.

Also.

She enjoys it. She enjoys sex a lot. It makes her feel powerful when so many parts of her life don't. Right? Yeah. Mahogany's saying this is good. That was me. I was confident on the outside, but a heart girl on the inside. Yeah.

And probably playing small like most hurt girls do. Do not want to be seen. Let's talk about that parental relationship. Right.

Probably father. That problematic parental relationship was probably father. And it was probably because he was angry, abusive, had.

Alcohol, drug issues, and or narcissistic.

Okay. So if that's you, I want to see the hurt girls.

Hands up. If you're a hurt girl.

I want to let you know. What did we talk about for the hurt girls? We talked about similar things in terms of vulnerability and boundaries and confidence, just like the nice girl. But she needs special attention when it comes to healing those inner childhood wounds, managing her mindset, and understanding men. All modules in my program that we go through in amazing depth. Okay, good. I hope that this was really clear for you. We talked about the nice girl, we talked about the hard girl, and we talked about the hurt girl.

Now talk to me. Who are you? Are you the nice girl? Are you the hard girl? Are you the hurt girl?

Let me know. I want to know who you are.

We're all family here. I have given you a roadmap to your healing in today's live. What specific things you need to work on to make sure that you are able to not just get into an amazing relationship or just get into a relationship, because you can do that by lowering your standards tomorrow. This is about getting into your forever relationship.

This is about you being able to meet the high quality man that you want to meet and be with and not self sabotage yourself out of this amazing relationship and opportunity. Right.

Okay. I'm hearing my dad definitely had narcissistic tendencies. He was a good dad, but terrible husband. So my outlook on relationships used to be so wild. Lol. Yeah. Yeah.

Again, the roadmap into why you were the. Why you were the hurt girl. Right? Yeah. His narcissism forced you to play small and be small just to exist in his presence. So we take that over to our future relationships with men.

Right?

Yeah. Good. Okay, nice girls. Okay, hard girls. Okay, hurt girls. I hope that this was really helpful for you. If I have snatched your wig, if you have no more edges and you're like, oh, my God, this is me. I want to invite you to book a free consultation call with me so we can talk a little bit more about your personal sitch. Right. You can either send me a DM or PM or you can go to my consultation link www.getyourguy coaching.com apply okay. And we can talk a lot about this and let me know DM me and tell me which girl you are. Right? If I have given you some clarity, I want to know. Right? Because this is really the intention of this life. You have clarity. You have what your roadmap looks like. So now it's about execution. And what I know is that so many women out there have a lot of information, but it's really about what you do with it and how you implement that information and execute on it that makes the difference. And that's what my value add is when it turns. When it. When it's. When I'm talking about the success of my clients, right. And how they thrive. Yeah. Good. Awesome. I actually didn't think I was going to talk this long, but you know, when you got a lot to say, you got a lot to say.

So talk to me. Does anyone have any questions on what I've discussed tonight about nice girl, hard girl, hurt girl?

Let me know. I'm here. Or any general questions about your love life, about men, dating, relationships, love? I'm here to answer them for a few minutes before I get off and go to bed. It has been a long week. My God, these weeks are going by so fast.

Let me know of any questions. Thank you, Heather. Heather said so good. It's about clarity, right? It's about knowing what you need to do to get to your future self, your future life, your future relationship. That's what this is about, right? And what I'm saying is that.

I help my clients get there and thrive, right? And truly transform, okay? How to meet more good guys. Okay, so where are you meeting them now is the question.

Because here's the thing, good guys are everywhere, right? The question is what is your filtering or evaluation of them? To actually filter out the bad ones and to keep the good ones. That's the question here.

Hey, Marilyn, good to see you. Please review this entire live, girl. I think you're going to get a lot of information out of it. So my question for you, Heather, is where do you meet them now? Right. And what is your dating strategy to make sure that you're eliminating all the not so great ones and only talking to the good ones. Because I have my own dating strategy that I teach all of my clients exactly how to do that. And if you don't have a dating strategy, that's a problem. And here's the thing, if you don't have a Dating strategy. I don't want you to feel bad because most women don't. Most women have been programmed to think that a guy is just going to come out of thin air or knock into them in a coffee shop and it's going to be happily ever after. It is 2021 and you need a strategy because we are so connected globally that there are so many more people out there that you're actually going to have to filter out.

Right.

Versus 20, 30 years ago, where wherever you were in your town.

Business trip, that's who you met. Or your church or the grocery store, that's who you met.

So I definitely tell my clients to go online on their dating apps. That online dating strategy will change depending on where you are in the world. Right. I have clients in Europe, in South America, in North America and in Asia. Those dating sites will change also. Also regionally where you are in the US.

And based on your race and age. Right. So I create an entire dating strategy for each one of my clients once I get to know them a little bit and completely transform their online profiles to make sure that they are attracting quality men. Right. My profiles are infamously long because the guys that are serious are going to read every word of your profile. Right? Yeah. So there are a lot of ways to meet good, high quality men. The other thing that I want to just let you and everyone else on this live know is that.

In 2021.

You women, you will need to be more assertive when meeting men in real life. We are post MeToo and we are in a pandemic, which means that men are not going to come up to you. They don't want to be considered a harasser or a perv.

Also, they're going to keep their distance. Right. The 6ft or the 2ft or whatever it is where you're at, they're not going to come up to you.

And if they do, you might want to question it a little bit. Like.

We'Re in a pandemic. Bro.

What are you doing? Get the hell away from me, loser. I'm just kidding.

Okay, so. So.

Yeah, so that means that you're going to have to take your love life in your own hands and actually choose the men you want to be with instead of be chosen. This is a complete mind shift because I think women have been programmed to feel like I have to be chosen. I have to be chosen. I'm waiting to be chosen in 2021. We can't wait. We have to create. Right. Just like in any other part of your life. If you wait for things to happen that probably not happen, you have to create them. You have to go out and you have to get them. And I think when I say assertive, people think, like, get this negative association with the word. Like, they think, like, I have to be like, a dude and, like, approach and accost people like a dude. Not at all. There are ways to do this within your own power, right? Yeah.

Yeah. Okay.

Yeah. Yeah. That's what I'm hearing. The makings of Mahogany said. I've talked to a few men that are hesitant to approach because of me, too. And cancel culture. That's right. That's right. Which means that you have got to make it happen either through tremendous green lights that you're giving him from across the room or you initiating something, either walking up or initiating conversation casually. For example, if you're in a grocery store and you're next to someone in an aisle with tons of toilet paper, you need to be the one to say, like, have you tried this one yet? What are your thoughts?

You know, that's what being assertive means in terms of real life, meeting men. Okay. But, yeah, I have my own way that I teach my clients how to meet men, and it is wildly successful. You have to understand, too, that when I think about dating, for me, it's not about quantity, it's about quality. Right. So it means that you might go on a date once every two weeks, but that the probability of that date being great is going to be amazing. What I know about this love game and this dating game is that nine out of the 10 guys that you go out with on a physical date will not be the one. Right? But you got to go on 10 dates, girl. If you're telling me that you're going on a date every six months, it means that you probably won't find anyone for another five years. Right? What I've seen to happen when it comes to the way that I teach my clients how to date, that that number becomes one in six. So one out of every six guys that you go on a date with will probably be the one.

Or someone that you really connect with.

Good. More questions for me. How can I help? I'll do a couple more minutes and then take my. Behind the bed, girl. Gotta take these kids to private school in the morning.

Any other questions? I can't even find one. Can't even find what? Hot diva.

Any other questions? A man, girl. You and so many other people. Right? I want you to watch this live from the beginning, because what I have done is I have highlighted three kinds of girls and really focused on why they are having trouble finding a man. Haj Diva, you're either a nice girl, a hard girl, or a hurt girl. You've got to figure out which girl you are. And with each of those, we have specific things that you have to focus on. For the nice girl, confidence, vulnerability, boundaries. For the hard girl, vulnerability, talking to men, masculine and feminine energy. For the hurt girl. It's basically everything that the nice girl needs to do do. Plus healing those inner childhood wounds and managing your mindset and understanding them. Yeah, right. Again, I'm going to repeat so that you're very clear about what you need to do. Right. There are three types of girls, right? The nice girl, the hard girl, or the hurt girl. I've laid out exactly who the nice girl is. Please. If you've missed it, check this live from the beginning because I go into amazing depth about why she is the way that she is, what her triggers are, and what are the strategic things that she needs to work on to achieve her love goals. The same for the hard girl. The same for the hurt girl. Okay.

Good. All right. Like I said before, I am.

So happy that you joined me tonight. If you are interested in learning more about what I do and getting into an amazing relationship with a high quality man, DM me or book a free consultation with me at www.getyourguycoaching.com.

And we're gonna rock this out like I do with all of my other clients. Okay. If you loved what you've heard, I want to also invite you to check out my podcast, the get yout Guy Coaching Podcast, where we dove into so many subjects like this. Okay.

Very cool. Well, I love you all. I hope you all are doing well, keeping safe, keeping vaccinated, keeping distanced. And I will chat with you soon. Okay.

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