This YouTube monologue by Anwar White (uploaded May 9, 2025) answers a question from "Chastity" about plus-size women encountering men who immediately become physical. The speaker advises firm boundary-setting: reject unsolicited body comments or touch, end dates when men focus on or touch the body, and avoid "gagging" on compliments that may be manipulative.
Chastity said plus size girl. Guys I meet seem to immediately lead with being physical. What might I be doing wrong? Well, girl, I mean your name is Chastity.
I don't think you've been doing anything wrong. I think that and I want to say this with love and respect, a lot of men will look at plus size women and think that they might have lower self esteem and, and feel like, okay, like I can do whatever I want with her body because it doesn't seem like she cares about her body. So it just means that your boundaries got to be tip top.
Like cannot play around. Anytime a man talks about your body before you like met him on a physical date.
Out. Anytime you're on a first date and a man touches you or again says something about your body, out.
And he says, oh my God, I love your, I love your shape. I love plus size out.
A lot of the plus sized girls aren't doing that. They're gagging on the compliments.
And then they're getting caught up with these guys that are just using them. It.