Veronie Anderson

Veronie Anderson talks about reclaiming sexual agency after a breakup through womb healing, cord-cutting, and treating masturbation as ceremony. She traces sexual shame back to religion and offers practical exercises like writing forgiveness letters to your body and taking pussy selfies.
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Hello, my loves. Thank you so much for joining me today. I have a very special guest who I am so excited to talk about and I know that I say that quite almost every week, but I am actually really excited to talk to this girl over here now. Her name is Veroni Anderson and she is the picture Pussy Power Goddess. Rooney, thank you so much for being here on the get yout Guy podcast. Why don't you let the beautiful listeners, listeners out there know exactly what you do and why you are the Pussy Power goddess.
So as you said before, I am Veroni Anderson, the pussy power priestess. So what I do is that I empower women to unleash their inner sex guide, but I talk, I use pussy power practice to help them to unleash it and just to have a close connection with their pussy and their body, you know, so that they could feel like they're a woman.
Yeah. So just FYI, we're gonna be using pussy a lot in this episode. So if you can't handle it, you should probably turn it off. Now before we go, like, any further, talk to me about why you use the word pussy versus vagina or any other names.
Because pussy, I think, is universal. Right. I know a lot of people are using.
Yoni, which is a Sanskrit word. I am not Sanskrit. I think that is just such a. It's a gentle and a beautiful word. Right. And definitely vagina is not the right word for the whole genitalia because the vagina is just that, the inner panel that's, you know, between the. The outside and the cervix. So it just. The vagina just doesn't describe the word. So pussy is just. There is just something about it. It's just passionate and energetic and it's just nasty. Yes.
Nasty girl.
And every time people hear the word pussy, they either laugh like they're an idiot. Right. Or just their blush or something. So there is this power in the word a pussy. And I just love the word, so I'm proud to use it. It's what I have. It's what you have as a woman. So just embrace it.
Yes. I love that so much. Now, it's such an interesting, I guess, niche or business to be in. And you don't really hear a lot about people really empowering women to embody the power of their pussies. So talk to me about your journey in terms of how you got to this business and how you really started to conjure and hold all of the pussy power that you have.
Well, my journey started. I am Going to call it a chance of me transformative breakup. Now, before, I used to call it soul crushing, but I'm not calling it that anymore because, you know, because it changed my life to who I am. So it transformed me into this woman, this powerful pussy power woman that I am today. So after that breakup, that breakup did something to me. So I decided that I wasn't going to jump into another relationship. I wasn't going to jump into another sexual relationship. I wasn't going to mix my energy with anybody else. So I decided to go on a healing journey. And on that healing journey, I started learning about woman wisdom, you know, the moon cycle, vaginal steaming, just all different healing modalities, theater healing. So that's what lead me into developing this relationship with my pussy.
And so, yes, just really quickly, what.
Were some of those modalities that you were talking about? Which ones were most helpful for you?
Well, I did the vaginal healing, right? I did the vaginal healing.
And what does that look like? Because I know my listeners out there, like, what is that?
Is that, you know, I look at my vagina, like on a daily basis, right? And then I did womb healing. So the womb healing one was where. Was where it kind of get a little bit emotional, I would say, you know, or when you have to face your past with all your sexual partners. So the womb healing one is when I kind of sit down and I was like, oh, my God, let me look at all the lovers that I have in my life, right? And so when I look at all the lovers that I have in my life, I want to kind of like cleanse my womb, kind of like cleanse my vagina. So I, you know, did this thing where I kind of cut cord, like I kind of release their energy. Cutting cord is like releasing their energy from your body, right? So I'm saying goodbye to those past lovers, right? Because I wanted to have this fresh start. So I actually.
You know, release them. Release all the partner, release them with love, right? And thank them for what they. They did. The relationship that we have, the energy that we exchange. And then I, I guess afterwards I wrote a letter to my pussy and said, you know, forgive me, forgive me, because some of the relationship that I go into, I know they weren't healthy for me because, you know, you're pussy now because sometimes you have sex and you didn't even have. You don't have an orgasm. There was no moisture, there was no wetness because you're not connected with the person, but you did it maybe because the Person, you know, was like, you know, I want it. And you may be in a compromising position. So you did. So. And sometimes when. When I had sex, I kind of disconnect from my body where I don't really look at those partners. I close my eyes and I have sex with them. And then afterwards, I get up and I'll be like, oh, let's take a shower. And I kind of wash that person and that memory off. It's like, yeah, disconnect from your body. So I had to. I apologized to her. I apologized to my pussy and, you know, said, I'm sorry. I will never put you into that position again. I will make sure that you know me, you and my heart, like, all of us are one. Like, I would not treat you as a separate entity. I would not treat you as a different part of my body. Like, we have to be in connection and in sync. So that was really very powerful for me, right? So I came to grip with all my sexual part, My sexual history, right? And I look it in the face. I got my lesson that I was supposed to get from it, and I move on. So there is no shame when it comes to my sexual history. You know, it's gone because I'm not hiding anything. It's all in the open. And I talked about it, like, many times because what's happening out here is that man will try to shame you and say, oh, yeah, I hope I could say, fuck a new podcast.
You can do whatever you want, girl. This is your podcast. I am just. I am just a bystander.
I'm like, no. I'm like, no, motherfucker. I fuck you, too. Both of us fuck each other. So you don't have anything over me. And, you know.
You just don't. You just don't have anything over me. So I just. I just came to grips in terms of just who I am, and I just don't care. I'm just, like, free, liberated. I just do who. I just do what I want to do. I have sex with who I choose, but the person who respect me and who love me, right? And I understand that when we're having sex, it's not. I'm not giving you my body. You're not giving me your body. We're coming together here. This beautiful.
Connection between both of us. And if we decided to break up afterwards, so be it.
Yeah, I love that. I love that so much. It's interesting, when I'm talking to a lot of my clients, oftentimes their language is about letting people in when really the experience is sharing what you have externally with another person. So I'm so glad that you were mentioning it in that way. And I think it's important for our listeners out there to really think about that. This isn't like someone coming in and taking something from you, like a thief or a burglar, right? You being the home. That's not what this is at all. This is about sharing your excellence, your brilliance, your pussy, your sexual energy, all of that. I love it.
You talked a little bit about shame. And it's interesting.
I think, in the black community, even the communities of color, that there's so much sexual shame out there, right? What do you think is going on? Like, why, what's. What's bringing on a lot of that shame in our communities.
Religion, black people. We love our church.
We do. I grew up in it since I was 15. Did you grow up in the church as well?
Oh, God, yes. Jamaica, where I'm from, we have more church per capita than any other place in the whole wide world. It's like we're in a Guinness Book of record. So of course, religion was used to. To make people submissive, right? And of course they use that religion to submiss. Make women submissive too. Of course. We're just there to have babies. So sex was whatever, just to have babies. A woman, right? So we were just there to just reproduce so you could take on. To bring the name of the man, continue the generation line. So of course, you know, we're shamed.
We're ashamed with that. And then of course, you know, the Bible again, where you have to, you know, have your husband to have sex and just everything is just evil and you just. You're just wrong. Whatever we do as women, we're just wrong, right? Well, just all of that, right? And the fact if you have sex with more than one man, you're just a whore or your reputation is just disruptive. And then another woman too. Woman and woman, right? They call you a whore or whatever, right? Just the shame just surrounded. So people just. They hide it, right? So they hide sex. They either do it in the corner in the darkness, and they don't know that sex is the foundation of who you are. You were born from sexual energy. Yeah, well, sexual energy is you. You're a sexual being, right? So whatever you do in the corner with sex, you're hiding. Something in your life is hiding. So sex touch every part of your life. Sex is not separate from who you are.
You are sex because you're a sexual Being just like how you're a spiritual being.
Yeah, I love that so much. Now, obviously, I think we have. If you've grown up in the church or in black communities, there's some shame associated with. With sexual.
What did you do to get over that shame? Like, what are the things that you would coach even the listeners out there today on in terms of how to get over whatever shame they're having around sex? And I'm asking this because when you. Whether you're single or not, you have to know your entire self, right? And if you want to be successful in this love, relationship and sex game, you have to let go of all the shame so that you can show up authentically and genuinely in your own life. So how can one kind of get over that shame?
Well.
They have to have this urge to want to do something different, to try something different. Right? So the first decision is on them.
Excuse me? Go ahead.
The first decision is on them. And when they come to me. Right. Is they know that there is a longing there, right? So there is this yearning inside of them that there have to be something more, Right. And they want to change, right? They don't want to suppress themselves anymore. They don't want to suppress their sexuality anymore, right? So they want to combine everything of who they are. So Pussy power is about just woman empowerment, like being the woman that you were meant to be. Right. And it's not about you just being a good girl or a bad girl. It's about you just being you. Because just like how there is good, there is evil, there is good girl and there is bad girl, right? Yeah. Balance with everything. So first of all, definitely, you have to start with relationship with yourself, right? So masturbation.
That'S one of the things that I push. You have to do masturbation, self love, body love, solo sex, whatever you call it, right?
Talk to me about what masturbation does for you.
Oh, my God. Just so many things, right? First.
You learn to make love to yourself, right? You learn to, like, know your body and just accept your body, right? It's empowering, right? So it's kind of good to know that you don't have to depend on somebody else for your orgasm.
Yes.
Right? So when you know that you don't have to depend on somebody else, it is just empowering within. Within itself. So just like how they're teaching people, like, oh, my God, you should be independent. You shouldn't depend on a man to do this for you or to give you money, or you shouldn't depend on a Person to, to go there and, you know, to get a house for you or to whatever. You got to be independent. How come we're not teaching people to be independent when it comes to sex, right? Like you shouldn't wait on somebody to pleasure you. I'm not saying, I mean, when somebody come in and pleasure you, it's better, right? I wouldn't say better, but it kind of accentuated. Just make it. Yeah. Richer. It's richer, right?
More energy, for sure.
Two persons together, so it's, it's. It's nicer. So it's richer. So I don't know how they're not teaching people that. Right? Instead of teaching people that, oh, if you touch yourself, it's a sin. I just don't get that. How could touching your own body be a sin?
Right?
I come up with something else. Like, how could touching your own body be a sin? Your sexual urge, right? Remember that you were created from sex. You're going to have sexual urges.
Yeah, Right. And if you're not in a relationship, right? And if you don't want to be in a relationship, right? So for instance, me, when I was healing, I didn't want to bring somebody else energy into this meds, right? After a time when I was healing from my breakup, when my heart wasn't, you know, as hurt as it was because a period of time when I was going through the heartbreak, I couldn't feel like I, Like I.
Was numb. So when you have a heartbreak, your. Your heart and your pussy, it's like there is this. There is this magnetic field that runs between it. So when your heartbreak. When you have a heartbreak, you kind of break that magnetic field.
Right? So it's. I wasn't feeling it. I wasn't feeling my pussy. But after a time when I was doing all the healing work, when I was. When I was coming back together, when I was coming back into alignment with my vagina, my body and my heart was coming back to alignment because I'm loving myself, right? I'm healing and I'm working on who I was. Then I started to feel it.
I feel it. I started it jump. My, My pussy start to jump. And I'm like, what the hell is going on?
I'm alive here, right? And I'm like, what the hell am I supposed to do? Like, what, what's going on here? This, this, this, this thing I haven't jumped in a while.
I'm feeling it.
They have some light. It's alive into a relationship as yet, right? I. I didn't want To. I kind of was kind of enjoying this. This healing and just everything that I was doing. So I. I masturbate, right? I masturbate. But the thing about me, and I'm not saying I do this all the time, but when I do masturbation, it's a whole thing for me. It's a whole.
It's a ceremony, it's a process, It's.
A whole, like, whatever. It's just so fulfilling. Like afterwards, when I'm in my bed and I'm rubbing my leg together, I'm like, oh, my God, it's so good.
I get it, girl. Yes. I love it. Talk to me about, like, your masturbation practices. Not specifically, but, like, what sort of things you would recommend, right? Because I think obviously one could masturbate with their hands or with vibrators or other things like that. So what sort of thoughts do you have around that? Because I do think, as you were pointing out, that masturbation is a really important part of this. So I want to make sure that people are understanding, like, how they can do it in their own lives to maximize that experience.
Yeah, it depends. It depends for me now because I've changed. Like, I've grown, like, a lot. Like, when I started, I stopped with, actually my shower head. Okay, Those house. Whatever, thing. And then I move on to, like, a little hand vibrator. But now that I've known better, right. I don't use the vibrator anymore. I just use, like, plastic crystal dildos.
Okay, talk to me about that decision.
Yeah. The reason why I don't use vibrator anymore and I'm just. To anybody out there using vibrators, you can, right? It's up to you. It's. I'm not telling you you could make your own decision. I'm just telling you about me. And then you could just think about it. What I notice about the vibrator is that it was numbing, desensitizing my pussy, right? So that's the reason why I stopped using it. And I realized that. I realized that after using it, it's like it. Like, it needs more force. It needs more force. So the more force, and I was just feeling just. Just numb. And I think that I was depending on the vibrator to come, and I just didn't want that. I didn't want that. So now I started to use. I use crystal. I use crystal dildos, right? And, you know, so now I'm not totally dependent on my fit. I get vaginal orgasm. So that was it. I used dicostel Builders. And I use my hand too. It depends. And one thing I want to say too, I don't. Sometimes I just really don't want to even have an orgasm. It's about the whole touching and the pleasure. So it's not every time I have or I want to. Sometimes I save my. My time. I save my orgasm for maybe a month or something because I want to use my orgasm to manifest. Sometimes I save it. I want it to be more like explosive. And sometimes I just don't want to masturbate because I just want to just play with myself and just feel with myself. And then I just. It just feel good. I think it does something. It raises your vibration when you kind of masturbate and circulate your sexual energy.
I love that. Now you were talking about how vibrators potentially can desensitize your pussy. And it sounds like that makes sense, right? And especially if you are and then engaging with another partner that it might be harder for you to get off with another person because of the vibrator. Has that been your experience or the experience of your clients?
Yeah, so. Yeah, so. Oh, I'm sorry, we were talking at the same time.
No problem. I was just saying that. Has that been the experience of your clients or of you? That you've been using vibrators for a while and then it's been harder to come with another person?
Definitely. Definitely. And mostly too for a woman who wants to have vaginal orgasm, right. If you depend on the vibrating, if you depend on your just kid sensation, it's going to be harder for you to have vaginal orgasm, right? Because you just. The neural pathways in the vagina kind of just. What would I say? I want to say shut off, but they're not working because you're depending on like the. It's like you have like three gates, right? So if you're depending on. So the clit would be the first gates. If you're depending on the clit, the other. Other gates won't work because you're just opening this gate all the time.
What I'm saying, what are the other gates? Girl, you're talking to a clueless gay man here that is learning Pissy 101 right now, girl.
The clitoris is one gate. Then you have the G spot, which is another gate, which is. And then you have the internal like the.
Cervical or orgasm, right? So that's another gate.
Okay?
So that's where women have like three waters. They would say three waters or three opportunities to have an orgasm.
I love that. Okay, girl, I'm learning so much. This is why I was so excited to talk to you today, because I knew that you were going to be spitting so much interesting knowledge that I don't think a lot of people are aware of. So I'm just so happy that we're having this conversation. Okay, so how do you feel like people can. Women can really find that power in their sexuality, right? We've talked about how religion and maybe some other external or societal pressures or learnings can kind of hinder women. How can women find their power and even become less sexually repressed?
It all start with, like the conscious decision, right? And I think one of the things that we do is that.
We don't really get an education when it comes to sex, right? Or what we get in school where we know about the mechanic part of the vagina. Like, oh, yeah, we have an open or something, you know, we don't go on further to learn more about ourselves and our body. So it's about learning. Like you have to take up a book, take a course, take a class, get coaching, right?
You have to learn. There is so much more modalities out there. And as a woman, if you want to tap into who you are.
Really know about your body, you have to to learn, get coach. I know you could read books and I have no problem with people like reading books to like, knowing stuff. But I think when you have like a mentor, a coach, a guide there with you along the way to kind of guide you, it is like so much better. Because what I think that could happen is that there is so much information overload that you get the information, but you don't put it into practice when you have a mentor, a coach or somebody guiding you, right?
Yeah, totally.
Information. But you embodied your embodied the information, right? So they said that knowledge they keep. People say that knowledge and power. No, knowledge is not power, is the fact that you put that knowledge, you practice that knowledge, you embody that knowledge. You do it every day, right? That is the power.
I totally agree with you. It's the same with dating as well, right? Everyone has their own love journey. Just like everyone has a different pussy, right? That has its own experiences, that has its own healing that needs to be done and all of that.
Do you have any exercises that my listeners can do at home to improve their own pussy power?
Well, one of the first things is the first practice. Take your dam off on to wear off. You can make a ceremony of it if you want. Everything I do with a ceremony, right? And you could look into that wonderful pussy that you got there, girl. Just right. This is something that guys or people are killing themselves over, right? And you're having it between your legs and you're not looking at it. Look at the power. Look at the power right there, right? Get to know it. Feel up on it. Feel up on your own pussy is what Jay Z says.
Yeah.
He said, feel up on your own dick, Daisy. But I'm putting it. Feel up on your own.
Of course. Of course I love it.
But definitely, I think I used to do it. I used to talk. I call it pussy selfie Wednesday.
Just take a picture of your own pussy and just look at it throughout the day. Take a selfie. You don't have to send it to anybody, right? You just take a selfie and. And you just look at it. Observe it. Because it changed throughout the month. It could just change, but it's just nice to just look at it. Look at the intimate part of your body. We don't give it a lot of attention, so just look at it. So that is something simple that you could do. And you could just say, I do. Pussy affirmation that I do every day. I don't call them pussy affirmation, but I call. I put them on my Facebook thing right where I just stopped. I thought, nasty.
I love the affirmations. What's one of your favorite ones?
Well, this is the one that I think people love so much. I do different. One of them. I said, let me see.
What did I. I just draw a blank. So let me just give you some. I. I would be like, I am horny. I think I have one. I have a man who bust my pussy wide open. Bust my pussy mind and wide open.
I think the last one I did, I said, my pussy connect to your. My pussy connect to your dick. Like wi fi.
Girl, I can't take it. I can't take it. Girl, your affirmations.
I squirrel so hard. I need a squirt blanket. I just do different. Different one. I said, which one did? I said a while ago, I said, big, strong dick floats to me easily. Flows to my pussy easily. I just come up with yes.
Manifesting it all. Girl.
I love it. I love it. One of the other things that you had said earlier in this and when we were talking about your own journey was this kind of forgiveness letter to your pussy, which I think is so interesting and so fascinating because, you know, so many women out there can't even look at it, let alone talk to it or communicate with it in a way that I think is like.
Very conscious. Right. And so I just think that even doing that exercise is so important because even just thinking about my friends, right. Not only have they had interesting partners, which is energy right inside of you. I tell my clients all the time having sex with someone can chemically bonds you to those individuals. Right. And so that's why I'm telling people like you want to be very careful about who you are having sex with and what sort of energy or chemical change state you are willing to have based on an individual. But one thing that I want to say is that this forgiveness letter is not just about. You said it was your womb healing. Right. But I'm just thinking about my friends here who have had miscarriages or abortions or anything related to the vagina, pussy, you know, cervix, womb, all of it. I just think it would be so helpful to even just have that forgiveness letter. So I love that exercise that you told my listeners about. And I think it could be really helpful for them.
Oh, yes. And you know, they could do it too, you know, if they do an abortion or if they do, if they have a miscarriage, they could also do it right there, you know, because I think most of the time we hide or we put something behind the rug and we get healing when we face it, you know? You know, when we cry about it, when we name it, so we can move on. So when we face it, it's so much different. And just to get into my stories, too, is that I also have a miscarriage where I didn't really even think about. I was doing that wound healing thing. I was doing the. When I was writing the letter, I. During that time, like, call my baby in, like, what was your name? You know? You know, stuff like that. And, you know, I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to, like, meet you. Maybe there was a purpose why you were just here for this short time. And I love you. I said I love you and we'll meet. We'll meet again, you know, And I thank him or her for blessing. It's a him. I thank him for blessing my womb. Right. And I just sit with it. I sit with that for a minute. And I think it kind of helped me, Right. Because I didn't really think. I didn't. It was something that I didn't want to think about or something, you know, when you. Something happened and you just like the door, push it under the rug. Yeah.
Don't want to deal with it.
I just bring it, you know, I would Just open the door, just look at it. I sit with it, and I acknowledge it. I know that the shame, the hurt, the pain, the emotion that was attached to it, it's just gone. And I think I was free. Or after I did it, I was free. Yeah, Yeah, I was free and I was just lighter.
Why I'm able to, like, just come on social media and just talk about all these things without.
Any apprehension or any shame. And, you know, it's funny when people think that they could come on social media or say something to me, like, shame me. I'm like, are you trying to shame me? I don't have any shame. I deal with it already.
I love it. Shameless. But that's how you have to be in life, in your dating life and your sexual life. Like, meaning, like, you have to feel 100% confident in yourself.
Oh, yeah, I love that. Oh, yeah. Oh, definitely. I'm not afraid to tell people that I have a bad day or my energy is not like, ooh, all the time. But see, I know my body, right? So I was telling you that I know my period is coming on. So that vibrant energy that I was going to have, I know it's like I'm going on the inside, quieter and quieter, but I know that about myself.
I love that. And I had an episode a couple of episodes ago about body and mind and being able to really listen to yourself. So many women out there tried to, like, power through all of these things and not necessarily listen to their bodies when it comes to this. And I just feel like some of the masturbation work that you are talking about is so important and really be being, like, aligned and one with that energy. I wanted to ask you a general question because I know that there are a lot of women out there that have been sexually harassed or sexually assaulted. And I wanted to get your thoughts on.
What sort of work or words you had for those individuals. Because it's so prevalent for women in terms of how to regain that power.
Right.
That pussy power after it's been potentially violated.
You know, that's one of the areas that I don't really, like, touch, because I just. Yeah, that's not my. What is. I don't know. I feel so much painful, so I don't really want to touch on that era. I'll send it to, like, somebody else who deal with trauma and stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's. I think it pains my heart and a person. I'm talking on a personal level now. Yeah, my heart. Because, you know, your first sexual Experience. Right. Should not be traumatized. Right. Because what happened is that your body store those memories.
And what happened when you are, when you're hurt is like your body, like when you're feeling violated or something. It's like your, your body or your spirit is like, it's separate because it. Are you this, what would I say? You separate from your body? Your body and soul separate because you don't want to come to terms with it because the pain is so strong. Yeah.
So that's, you know, but I.
Outside the realm.
Yes. That is something that's just too heavy for me. I feel too.
Yeah, no, I completely understand that. Awesome. Well, finally, I generally ask my guests like how they got their guy, but I want to ask you kind of how you get your guys and how you choose the men that you have sex with. What are the things that are important that are on your list that these men need to check off before you decide to have sex with them?
Oh my God. Respect.
What does that mean to you? Respect.
You just have to respect me. You just, you have to respect my time. You have to. There's a couple, but you have to respect my time, right. I think that.
You have to respect my time.
Right.
I think nowadays people don't respect on time. Right. So you know what, let me start over that question.
Okay.
Consistency. Say more consistency.
Your words and your action have to be in alignment. Yeah. If your words and your action is not in alignment, then right there, that's a no go. Your words is, I would say, the least expensive things that you have. Right. So if you watch what's coming out of your words, your mouth with your breath. Right. The breadth. Right. If you cannot fulfill that as a person, then you're not true to you. So you can't be true to me. Yeah. Right. And then you have to respect me. And it could just be, you know, simple. You just know what I mean when you say just respect me. You just respect the person that I am, right?
Definitely. Just. Just admiration.
Talk to me about that because there are some people out there that find it hard to be admired. Right. And part of the work that you're talking about too is actually admiring your pussy. So how can, how do you, how do you allow the admiration to come your way? What do you do specifically?
You know, I just, I'm gonna laugh because, you know, I grew up in Jamaica, right?
Uh huh.
The culture there is, it's totally different. So from a little girl growing up, I mean, I know that a woman, what would I say a woman receive Right. A woman. I'm taught in Jamaica that a woman receive, so that mean receiving compliments. So I have. I have no problem with you walking on the street, guys. You say, hey, empress, hey, sexy, hey, whatever. And you just used to laugh and you feel good because it makes you feel good. So I had no problem, like, receiving that. So that's. That's. It's still embedded in me, right? Yeah, no problem, like, receiving compliments because I laugh and I say thank you. I really say thank you. And now I start to say, I received that. I really received that with grace. Right? I received that with grace. But I also am respectful and honest. And.
I think I also love, love.
Love.
Why do you say it like that?
Admiration. We don't have to, like, fall all the way in love, but there have to be the consistency, the respect, their love. We have to have, like, good conversation, definitely this good conversation. They have to understand, like, who I am as a person, right? So. So they know who I am as a person. They know I'm a person who talk about pussy all the time. They know I'm a person who talk about spirituality all the time and say both of them are together for me, right? They know that I'm a businesswoman, that I'm a mom, right? And they know all this stuff about me. So they have to respect all of that aspect about me, my time, just every. Just everything. So they just respect everything about me. And when they come in, it's to just to further, just push me, to empower me, to make me feel even better. If anybody's coming in, to give me any form of problems, burden, try to change me. That ain't gonna work.
Right? Exactly.
So off the top. And you know what? I do. I also. I know some people wants to do, like, sex on the first date or those kind of things. And.
People could do whatever they want. But if we could. If you want to have sex with me or whatever, you could wait. I want to take some time to, like, get to know you. I'm not giving you, like, say a three months or whatever, but I just want to take some time to just kind of just get to know you. Just to see if your action and your words is still in alignment. Right?
Yeah.
We were meant to be. If we were meant to be two weeks from now, whatever, or three months from now, we could still be. Right? But I just think I need, like, a little time, because I need a little time for me and your energy to mesh.
Yeah, definitely.
I hate when a stranger just touch me. I feel like, they. They take something from my energy. Like, I really feel it. I'm like, oh, this person come into my space. I don't know you yet. So just give me a little time for us. Our energy to just think. Yeah, Right.
I love that. Yeah, definitely. Well, Maroney, thank you so much for being with me today. Now, for the listeners that need to step up their pussy, right, how can they get in contact with you? How can they connect?
Well, definitely. Veroni AndersonLoveCatalyst on Facebook is the place to, like, get me and how to.
Spell your first name for them.
So they know V as in Victoria, E, R, O, N, I, E. And Anderson.
Love Catalyst. So that's love. And C A T A L Y S T, Catalyst. And I am on Facebook, Instagram, and also YouTube.
Amazing. Awesome. Well, thank you so much for being with me. I'm so appreciative of this conversation, and I know that so many listeners are going to get so many amazing pussy nuggets from this combo, and I'm just really excited for them to be able to be at one with something that they have maybe for a long time, disassociated with. So thank you so much for being here.
You're welcome. Thank you for having me. I really appreciate it.
Of course. Bye.
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