Dating coach Anwar White explains that everyone has both masculine and feminine energy. Many Black and Brown women develop stronger masculine energy early because of emotionally unavailable parents, absent fathers, and cultural messages that push them toward self-reliance.
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Let me see what y' all are talking about. How do I give less masculine energy? Kimbella asks.
One. I will say that.
I We all have both energies. Okay? So each of us has masculine and feminine energy. What I know and why I'm a dating coach for black and brown women is because the way that black and brown women are raised.
They have to be in their masculine because they're not able to rely on people. And they learn that early on in life. And when you're in your masculine energy, it is often because there is a lack of feminine, energetic love when you are growing up. For many of you, all that might be a narcissistic or emotionally unavailable or critical or highly judgmental mother. A lot of black moms are like that. And so we become in our masculine or we have a lot of black dads out there that are physically absent, emotionally absent. And so I don't and because most of and this is my experience as a dating coach for 15 years, what I'm hearing is that.
Most the way that women, little black and brown girls are taught to date is the overarching prevailing theme is you can't trust a man.
Don't rely on a man.
Of course you're going to be on your masculine if you can't rely on anybody.
