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We're not anybody's daughter!

Name: We're not anybody's daughter!
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:43:45.035537
Duration: 59 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short single-speaker monologue (YouTube video) in which the speaker recounts seeing a woman on a dinner date where the man set a $30 budget. The…

7 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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A short single-speaker monologue (YouTube video) in which the speaker recounts seeing a woman on a dinner date where the man set a $30 budget. The speaker contrasts two responses—acting like a ‘daughter’ (arguing about an allowance) versus a self-respecting ‘woman’ who politely thanks the man and leaves—and endorses the latter as the empowered choice.

There was a video of a woman on a dinner date. The guy gave her a $30 budget. I saw that video. And she was going back and forth with him, and she was talking about. I can't believe. Da, da, da, da, da, da, da. We don't talk to men who give us an allowance. We're not anybody's daughter.
You get to choose whether you want to be a daughter debating about an allowance or a woman.
Who doesn't even engage in that.
Daughter. Woman. It's your choice.
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, honey. You know what I do, girl?
Put my hair in a bun, get my pocketbook, thank him showing off my amazing manicure, and say, thank you so much.
Have a great evening. I'm gonna go now.