A short YouTube coaching monologue (Anwar White) advising women to devalue generic "good morning" texts—calling them equivalent to retail spam—because men often send the same message to multiple women. The speaker (a dating coach with 13 years' experience) recommends prioritizing two signals instead: a man who reaches out after work and a man who calls every night. She also advises women to adopt the men’s technique of "batching" communication to manage multiple dating conversations and date many people concurrently.
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Hey, girl. This is totally true. Guys that send you a morning text, it doesn't mean anything. And they're sending at least five to eight other women the same morning text. And I know that so many of us are like, it means that he's thinking about me, and I'm the first thing that he thinks about when he wakes up. It's not he's checking a box. The way that I want you to think about this is I want you to prioritize two things. One, if he reaches out to you after work, because that means that you are the first person that he wants to talk to about his day. And two, if he's calling you every night. As a dating coach that has been doing this work for 13 years, I know that a woman is about to get into an amazing relationship when the guy is calling her every evening. Moving forward, I want you to think about these good morning texts, like the spam that you get from Victoria's Secret, Bath and Body Works, Ulta Sephora. And think of these messages as a 20% off of your next purchase. It doesn't mean anything. And, girl, just put it in the spam. All right, I hope this helps.
Also, don't get mad at these guys for what I call batching communication. Learn from them. So many women are telling me, oh, I can't deal with talking to two or three or five guys. No, girl, do what these guys are doing. Talk to the guys at the same time every three to four hours. Message them all at the same time so that you don't get overwhelmed, because you're supposed to be dating as many people as possible and seeing who wins. But you got to learn how to manage them, and this is a great way to manage them by batching communication.
