Anwar White advises transgender women to start with public dates instead of private ones, to see if a partner will be openly with you. He suggests conventionally masculine men may be less reliable partners than others.
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Luna the love witch, said. Any advice for transgender women? Yeah, tons.
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If you want to know, first of all, never.
Never have a date with a guy indoors. Never be in a car with a guy until later on in the courtship. So if he says come over or he wants to take you to some restaurant on, you know, outside of the city, don't do it. You. You want to have public dates with him because you want to see if he wants to be with you publicly, not just privately. Number two. And, girl, y' all gonna think that I am shady.
But those guys that have the rat faces, the rodent boyfriends. Girl, if he looks like Master Shredder from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, he's probably into you. Girl. A lot of y' all are. A lot of the trans girls are getting with the masculine guys, the construction workers, the gangsters, right, that are giving mad masculinity. The guys that are for real, for real for you are like the guys that have the rat faces.