Anwar White contrasts two types of men: the Alphabet man quietly handles logistics like reservations and fantasy football, while the Alpha man is loud and performative at dinner. One makes a better father.
The Alphabet man. He is a man who. He organizes things. He's a leader. He's not the loudest person in the room. He's the one that gets everybody together, right? So he's the one that makes the reservation for the birthday party. He's the airport dad, right? He's the one who the waiter comes to at the end of a meal.
He's not the guy who's the jokester, Mr. Charismatic. He's too busy making sure everything is in order.
Okay?
That's what we're looking for here because those men make great fathers. If you are choosing to have children.
The alpha man, he's probably going to be drunk, talking shit at a dinner.
The alpha man. He is not. He is the one who. He's not the airport dad. He's the. He's the guy who packs the night before.
The Alphabet guy. He's the guy who is managing his fantasy football league.
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