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What are examples of not courting men?

Name: What are examples of not courting men?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:44:35.771060
Duration: 25 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube advice clip by Anwar White ("What are examples of not courting men?") offering concrete examples of "not courting" behaviors: do not…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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A short YouTube advice clip by Anwar White ("What are examples of not courting men?") offering concrete examples of "not courting" behaviors: do not initiate texts or calls, do not call men back, do not send random "we're not doing anything" messages. White emphasizes giving men space to show initiative, arguing this is especially important for Black women because their partners must be willing to take on more responsibility and therefore need to demonstrate initiative.

Color Me Purple said, you may need to give examples of not courting men. No problem, girl. We will not initiate texts. We will not initiate calls. We will not call them back. We will not.
We won't be sending them random text messages like, we're not doing anything.
Nada. Prada.
Yeah. We're not doing anything for these men. We're giving them space to show up for us. And as black women, it is imperative that you do this because your guy is going to need to actually show up for you much more than another woman, because you dealing with much more in your everyday life. And your man is going to have to take on that burden. So he's going to need a lot of initiative to be able to do that.
Hear me?