Anwar White argues that large age gaps, especially when younger women date men 10+ or 20+ years older, often involve grooming and control. She shares her own experience seeking money from older men while on scholarship, and warns about the financial and emotional dynamics at play.
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Hannah said, what do you think about age gap relationships? Women in her 20s dating 45 plus year old men? I think that.
Those don't really work.
And that men that are more than 10 years older than you, especially if you're in your 20s, they're grooming you and they're using you, they're using your beauty, they're using probably your body and they are controlling you through their wisdom, through their finances. Some of the girls, and I was that girl too. I was in my Trina moment when I was in school on scholarship trying to get money from men. So I'm not saying this because I think I'm better than anybody else. I'm saying this because.
Men that are securing themselves date women that are in the same age bracket.
And when they are dating you, it means that they cannot handle women that are, that have the wisdom that they have. And that is something that should put you on pause.
Yeah, it's a, it's a grooming sitch. Girl. Yeah. And that. This is girl writings on the wall. Financial control, mental manipulation, potentially. And the gag is you think you're controlling this old dude. You think, oh my God. Because he's much older, I have full control over him because I'm super hot and beautiful and he'll do whatever I say. That slowly turns.
