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What are my thoughts about large age gap?

Name: What are my thoughts about large age gap?
Uploaded: 2025-01-14T19:00:15+00:00
Duration: 36 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Anwar White argues that large age gaps involving someone in their mid-20s and a partner in their 30s or 40s signal predatory behavior and grooming. He…

14 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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Anwar White argues that large age gaps involving someone in their mid-20s and a partner in their 30s or 40s signal predatory behavior and grooming. He sees less concern when both partners are 30 or older, with acceptable gaps around 10 years up and 5 years down. The older partner, he says, treats the younger as a plaything and will eventually move on for someone even younger.

Rachel said. What are your thoughts on large age gaps?
My thoughts are if a man is significantly older than you and you're in your mid to lower 20s, then he's grooming you.
If you're 30 plus and you're with an older guy, I don't have much of an issue. I generally say the age ranges of plus 10 years, minus five years. But if you're in your mid to low 20s and you're with a 30 or 40 year old, it's a no girl.
He's grooming you. He doesn't think of you seriously. And you, you're a plaything.
And when he gets tired of you, he's gonna find the next fun, cute 24 year old to use.
So my opinion, my perspective, my experience, that's what I wanted to share.