Short YouTube monologue advising women not to accept offers from men who say they want to "build" with them. The speaker argues women should partner only with men who are already established or "built," treats the phrase "I want to build with you" as an insult, and encourages women to step away until the man has built for himself.
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Tiffany Marie said. What about men who say they want a woman to build with but have nothing? We don't build with men. Do you see these hands, honey? These are computer hands. These are not construction hands. These are not blue collar. These are white collar. This is white blouse, actually. Right. We don't build with men. So if a man wants to build with you.
He'S not your man. We get with men that are already built.
If you want to. It's like buying a house without windows or a roof or a door. Why would you buy real estate that is not done and think that you're going to be protected and safe in a house that has nothing to protect you?
No.
When a man says that he wants to build with you, I want you to take it as an insult.
And I want you to step away and you get to let him know. Why don't you take some time to build for yourself? And once you've built something, let's have another conversation.