Why some older women date younger men: control after mistreatment or neglect from partners their age. Younger men offer responsiveness and perceived control. The speaker asks what you're actually getting from it.
What do Lisette said? What do you think of cougar women? The same. Similar reason. The similar thing that I hear or what I said about men like 46 year old men that talk to 26 year old women. A lot of cougar women are dating younger men because they also want to have a sense of control because the men that have been their age have abused them or taken advantage of them so many times we will do the anti of what we had. So like if you had a husband that never had sex with you, you will sometimes over course. Correct. And engage with men that are very sexual. Right. So in this instance. Right. For a lot of women that are dating younger men and that tend to do so, they're doing it because either the guys, they didn't feel like they had control or power with the guys that were their age. So oftentimes they engage with younger men because they will often be in more control.
I don't like those sorts of interactions. I always tell women like, you want to do that? Great. Let's figure out why we want to do that. Right. What are we getting from this? This is an important question to ask. No judgment girl.
Do, do you. But I'm. I'm always someone that is.
I'm not here to judge, I'm here to get curious. This is what I tell all of my clients. I want to figure out why we do what we do and what are the connections here and what is the origin story.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
