Short YouTube monologue in which the speaker reflects on the “Sprinkle Sprinkle” mindset, agreeing with much of another creator’s views but criticizing the idea of using men for money. The speaker argues that relying on men financially harms women by making men jaded and preys on financial wounds experienced by many Black women.
AP says. Do you have a video on your thoughts about the Sprinkle Sprinkle mindset? I talk about it here and there on some videos. I think I did a video about Coffee dates where I talked about it.
What do I say? I think her and I align on about 80% of the things. I think we diverge. When she starts talking about using men for money, I just think that it really makes things harder for other women out there because what happens is that when you use men for money, men are very sensitive and will become jaded. And these. And I'm talking about the good guys here, right. That are ready for a relationship. So I also think that.
Preys upon the money wounds of that a lot of black women have.
And oftentimes when we are trying to use men for money, this is about control, control and like how to control men because we are scared of them and we haven't healed from how they've treated us in the past. My approach is to heal that. Her approach is to start using men for money to gain power and control over them. So that's where we kind of differ.