What are my tips for going to a bar/restaurant alone?

Okay, Someone said, tips for going to a bar or restaurant alone. Okay, I'm gonna be on here for, like, 15 minutes because I'm tired.

Okay?

So actually, what I think is, like, really important is one of the things that I did a couple of weeks ago, I was in New York, and I had a meeting with some of my New York ladies. There was, like, 15, 20 of us. And so one of the things that I realized, and I helped them get, like, two or three numbers when.

Someone said, may is right around the corner. Okay, girl, give me two weeks, then. Damn. One one said, see you in May.

Girl. A mess. One of the things that I did to help each and every one of my ladies get about two or three numbers that night in Brooklyn was I literally. So this is what. I want you to go out with one other woman, and I want that one woman to be your wing woman. All I did was I would walk up to a guy that was standing there with a drink. Always talk to guys with a drink. Don't talk with a guy that doesn't have anything in his hand because he's po Talk with the man that's in his drink. These men are thirsty to talk to somebody. And you know what I did so that it didn't seem, like, weird? I literally said, hey, what's your name? Because I tell men what to do, and I think that you should, too. Hey, what's your name? And he says, you know, devonte. I said, great, devonte. This is my girl Sarah. Sarah, this is devonte. And then I walk away.

And then I walk away, and then they gotta figure it out. That's what you gotta be doing with your girl, okay? It keeps her cute.

And then she. She needs to do the same thing for you, okay? I'm trying to give you tea here. And then you figure it out. Then you make it work with him, and you give him ish all day, every day.

Okay?

Okay.

Someone said, what's po mean? And this is why I work with black and brown women right there. So do the intro game come back to me?

Yes, honey. Bib got it right, girl. Viv said, devonte is blocked. You write girl, and you've been studying me, and you get an A for the day. Any auntie is blocked. Be known. So let me retrack my entire story. If you go up to a guy and he says, his name is devonte, you say, devonte, have a good evening, and you walk the hell away. Okay? No, but honestly, this really works. Y' all are so worried about coming off thirsty and masculine. Starting a conversation with a guy, let your friend do it and it always works.

Okay? So do that. Come back to me and don't come back to my lives unless you have two or three numbers from the from the weekend previous. Okay?

Someone said, what about the name Rashad? Rashad is odd.

He likes anime. He watches cartoon corn with a P.

Someone said, homework. I love it. This is what I do in my programs every week. I give my ladies homework because guess what? You got to learn by doing.

Especially in if you are a black or brown woman.

Part of this work is having the evidence that you can do something that you haven't done before. So you have to do the thing to know that you can do it. Especially for our black bodies that are often dysregulated and our nervous systems are shot every day, you're going to have to do the thing. Okay?

That's what I help my clients do in my program.