Short YouTube monologue (dating advice) aimed at young women from the hood. The speaker (Anwar White/Torisa) encourages keeping beneficial lessons from a tough upbringing while diagnosing and discarding harmful patterns—particularly scarcity mindsets and bonding behaviors learned in childhood—and advises women not to settle for mediocre partners, urging them to wait for higher-quality relationships.
Torisa Dating advice for girl, for girls from the hood.
Keep the good things that the hood gave you. And here's the. Here's the crazy part about. Parts about love and dating. There are some things in our. Our childhood and how we were raised that really serve us, and there are other things that don't. Right. And everyone's going to have to kind of do that diagnosis, that, that diagnostic, that analysis. When you think about your parental relationship, your bonding patterns, what served you, what didn't serve you. This is. These are some of the heavy things that we do in my program.
And you probably acquired some patterns growing up in the hood and maybe some scarcity mindset, right? And so oftentimes, we are going to have to leave that where it was created.
The hood will teach you that you can only get a little something and not all of it. So what that means is oftentimes we'll be satisfied with a guy that's a 5 as a boyfriend. Instead of waiting for a 9 or a 10.
Wait for the 9 or a 10. It's better to have nothing than to have a guy that's a five or a six. Yeah. A lot of girls think that they're doing something because they got a man, when in reality, it's better to have no man than to have a man that's a five or a six.
