A short YouTube monologue (Anwar White, Jan 29, 2024) that gives practical flirting advice: know your "flirting type" (intellectual, emotional, physical) and lean into it rather than faking behavior. The speaker describes using bodily cues (watching feet) to detect interest and contrasts gay-club dynamics (people standing apart, hesitant) with more proactive approaches the speaker used to initiate contact.
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Miracle said. What are your go to flirting tips? Well, girl, it just. You got to figure out what your flirting tea is. If you're not a physical flirter, like, like media wants women to be. Like, if you're not touchy feely and all that, don't fake the funk. Don't be who you're not, because it's gonna look weird and awkward and here, girl, your point? Your points are gonna go down. If you're an intellectual flirt, if you want to have banter and poke holes at his argument, girl, do that. If you're an emotional flirt and you're talking about gratitude and compliments, girl, do that. If you're a physical flirt, do that. You just have to figure out what your flirt type is.
Okay, my go to flirt types. Well, I need to know who's into me. So. So I'm always looking at the feet, so I know who's into me whether I was in a gay club or just walking down the street. So once I know that the guy's into me by his feet pointing at me, girl, I go straight for it. But the gay life is different than the straight life.
The gay boys are scared. All they do is stand on opposite side of the corner like it's a junior high dance. So I was the guy that would make things happen for myself and my friends.
So my flirting tip was more like mortal, you get over here.