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What Are We

Name: What Are We
Uploaded: 2022-11-02T13:09:59+00:00
Duration: 58 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short video monologue advising people (addressed to women) about early-stage dating: don’t ask a man “where is this going” because that surrenders power…

2 Nov 2022 · 1 min

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Short video monologue advising people (addressed to women) about early-stage dating: don’t ask a man “where is this going” because that surrenders power. Instead, decide what you want (for example, exclusivity), express it clearly, and be prepared to leave if the partner refuses—especially after around two months of dating.

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Hey, girl. Have you ever been dating someone and wonder to yourself, what are we? Or where is this going? Well, I want to let you know that I never want you to ask a man, where do you think this is going? Because when you do that, you actually abdicate or give away your power. It's not up to him to figure out where it's going. You have to figure out where it's going first and foremost, and then express to him what you want. Hey, I'm really enjoying our dating right now, and I'd love to be exclusive. I'd love to be just focused on you. What are your thoughts? Right. You have to actually get clear on what you want and express that versus just kind of begging to be in a relationship and giving him all of the power. That's not what we're doing in 2022. Yeah. And if he says he's not ready for an exclusive relationship, especially after two months of dating, be ready to leave. Don't hang on, don't wait, because probability will tell you that it's not going to happen.