Anwar White warns against a 26-year-old dating a 46-year-old, saying the older partner is likely grooming for control and will use money and experience to manipulate. He argues 32 should be the maximum age gap for women in their twenties.
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What about age gaps? 20 years, 26 and 46. What do you all think? I think that that man is grooming you. And I think that a 46 year old man who is engaging with a 26 year old is looking for a woman that he can control. And so.
I don't think much good can come of it. I'm someone who is about love, connections and relationships. You know, people like Shira7 might say, go girl, get yourself an oldie. An oldie but a goodie. We'll call him a Motown, honey. Go ahead, girl, get yourself a Motown relative to you.
But I don't think that you'll learn a lot. The gag is, and I want to talk to the girls who get with the older guys because you think that you're in control. You think that you can do whatever you want with this old guy. And I want to offer to you that you're not. That actually he's in full control of you and you don't even know it because he makes you think that you're in control. And he's going to use his money and he's going to use his life experience to run circles around you. A lot of these girls that are 26 that are dating 46 year old men.
Everything will be going well. And then suddenly you don't hear from him ever again. And you know what the reason is? It's the reason. The reason is because he's found another 20 something. And that you are always replaceable. And I'm not, I'm not coming for you. I'm, I'm sharing this so that you understand that.
The control that you think that you have in this relationship is false.
