A short YouTube monologue by a dating coach emphasizing that no question about dating or reactions to micro- and macro-aggressions is "crazy." The speaker (a coach for Black and Brown women) encourages validation, nonjudgmental support, and helps listeners distinguish trauma/trigger responses from legitimate concerns in dating situations.
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Someone said. Someone was saying that some. Some of these questions, you know, are crazy.
None of these questions are crazy. I'm never going to judge you for any questions that you have because. And this is why I'm a dating coach for black and brown women. When you live your life and your nervous system is so often.
On high alert, sometimes it's really hard for you to trust your own judgment. So it's always going to be important for you to get that cosine. Am I freaking out because I literally have to fight off all of these micro and macro aggressions every day? Am I crazy or is this legit?
So I'm never. Girl, ask me the.
Simple, complicated, whatever questions. Because I do think it is important for you to have that validation and confirmation on these things.
Okay. So that you can be like, oh, no. What I. What I'm feeling is, okay, that it's not my trauma or my triggers. It's really what's happening right here and right now.
Okay? So we're not here to judge the questions.
We're here. I'm here to honor them. I'm here to help you navigate through this dating life, this dating journey that you're having.
