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What do I think about guys buying things for you early on in a relationship?

Name: What do I think about guys buying things for you early on in a relationship?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:44:28.295626
Duration: 53 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White giving dating advice about accepting gifts early in a relationship. The speaker warns that men who buy gifts…

7 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White giving dating advice about accepting gifts early in a relationship. The speaker warns that men who buy gifts early can be manipulative or narcissistic, creating a sense of indebtedness and passive pressure; they recommend not accepting money or presents until after about the third date.

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Someone asked, how do you feel about men trying to buy you things early on? I don't like it. Some of the girls. That's how some of the girls get caught up. And.
The reason I don't like it is because actually, a lot of toxic and narcissistic people will do that because they're trying to buy your love and they want to butter you up so that you feel indebted to them, which means that you will do things for them that maybe you wouldn't naturally do, but because they've done these things and these. They purchased and bought these things for you, there's this, like, passive pressure for you to kind of give in to what they want and what they need. I really wouldn't be, like, accepting, like, money and presents from people until after date three.