Anwar White says when a man loses interest, let him go. Instead, date multiple people and keep those who show strong affection on your roster. He warns against a rejection kink rooted in parental criticism that makes people chase unavailable partners.
Mickey said, what do you do if you think he's losing interest? Let him lose interest. Replace him with three other guys.
Your job is not to try to make guys like you. Your job is to date as many guys as possible and see who likes you the best. And that includes people.
A lot of times, girls are really turned off by guys that like them a lot. And the gag is you want to include those guys on your roster. Even if you're not fully, fully feeling it. You want to at least try it on just like you were at Payless shoe store and try on the shoes and see if you like them or not for a couple weeks. A lot of girls aren't doing it, and they're not. And then they're like, you know.
They'Re focusing on guys that are not living for them. Many of us have a rejection kink because a lot of our parents were highly critical or judgmental. And so that is kind of like a bonding pattern for us.
We need to get over that as quickly as possible. Okay, the guys that are loving you and living for you, those are the guys that we need to focus on and put most of our energy into.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
