Anwar White tells a 50-year-old woman who gets approached by younger men but not her peers to stop analyzing why and just enjoy it. Don't be a detective about the reason. Flirt, have fun, keep the momentum going in dating.
Shani said, I'm 50 years old and I'm only approached by 20 and 30 year old guys. 40s and 15 men don't pursue me at all. Why is that? I don't think that it's not our job to figure out the why. If you're ever asking me a question why, I already know that you're asking the wrong question.
Why? Because.
It'S not our job to figure out the why. We are not detectives. We're not SVU detectives Trying to figure out the case or trying to figure out men. Your job is just to honor the what, not the why. And the what is if. Let me see what the question was.
They're approaching you. Great. Let's engage. Let's have fun, let's flirt. Let's get our life. We don't have to take it fully seriously, but having action and activity in our dating life is really important for our momentum.
Girl, no, shade, you don't really want the 40 and 50 year olds anyway. Right now they're acting a damn fool.
Okay, all right.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
