Anwar White explains what it means when a woman is giving therapist energy: being the person in a friend group who naturally offers counseling-style responses and advice, often without realizing it. The example: when someone says they can't find their keys, the therapist-energy person asks where they were last put.
Mish said, can you expound on women giving therapist energy?
Yeah. So if in your friend group, you are the one that everybody goes to, that you're the one that's giving counseling energy. If you're like, sometimes. The thing about it is that if you give therapist energy, you might not know it because you're speaking naturally to people, but you don't understand that you're actually, like, giving recommendations or things like telling people what they should or shouldn't do. So, for example, if someone says, oh, I can't find my keys. And you're like.
Well, where did you. Where did you put them?
Should we retrace our steps? Like, you're giving instruction. That's masculine energy. Instead, this is what I want you to be. Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do to help? Right. It gives him space, time, autonomy to do what he feels is necessary, and then we give, and that's it.