What does pursuing someone look like?

What does pursuing look like? It looks like.

One to two dates a week. Chasing looks like three plus dates a week.

Pursuing looks like.

Calls one to two times a week. Chasers call every day.

Pursuers, I'm texting you once, maybe twice a day. Chasers, I'm texting you three times or more.

Guys who text a lot.

I'm 95% sure will never take you out, will never ask you out.

Because they're doing it for the emotional support.

Guys that are about their business, they don't have time to dilly dally via text. I know that's hard for many of us to think about or believe.

But guys that are about their business and making money.

Hey, do you want to go out? Good. Thursday, 6pm let's do it.

You might get a text Wednesday night saying, we still on.

But like, a lot of y' all are like, oh, my God, he's not texting me every day.

Girl.

If he's texting you every day, he doesn't have a job.

And if he's texting you every day and he has a job, he's not good at it and he's not going to get a promotion.

Unemployed, underemployed.

Either way, I don't want it and I don't want it for you.