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What if he asks you to pay for the 2nd date?

Name: What if he asks you to pay for the 2nd date?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:43:33.866170
Duration: 18 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube Q&A clip featuring dating coach Anwar White responding to whether a woman should pay for a man on a second date. He advises setting…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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A short YouTube Q&A clip featuring dating coach Anwar White responding to whether a woman should pay for a man on a second date. He advises setting boundaries: before the date, tell him you don’t feel comfortable paying but wish him well if he prefers; on the date, offer to cover your own meal and signal the mismatch; if he suggests splitting (as in splitting costs), end the date.

Kunda said. Anwar, what if he asked you to pay for the second date? If he's asking you to do that before. Before the day, just let him know. Oh, I don't feel comfortable paying for dates for men. But if that's something that you want to do, no problem. I want to wish you the best of luck.
If you're on the date, just let him know. Actually, I just. I'm going to take care of my meal. But I want to let you know that this probably isn't going to work.
Yeah. If he says split, you got to split from that date.
That's it.