Anwar White tells single moms to stop operating in constant masculine energy of doing and controlling. Stay there too long and you attract either dependent men looking for a mother or toxic ones. He frames this advice for Black and Brown communities specifically.
I get this question all the time. Cece asked advice for single moms.
I think it's important for single moms to learn how to get out of their masculine energy. That is like the number one thing that happens because you're in your masculine energy taking care of everything all the time for your kids and probably for your parents and other people as well, and that you never have time to kind of just rest in your feminine. Now. Am I saying that you have to be some sort of fembot? No. What I am saying, though, is that if you're in your masculine, you will attract two different kinds of guys. One, that is in his dominant feminine, that has regressed into a teenage boy and he's looking for a mother. Or two, a guy that is in his hyper, AKA toxic masculinity, that will try to force you to submit into your feminine. I know a lot of people are, like, kind of anti, you know, masculine and feminine energy. I think it's very important as it pertains to the black and brown communities, and it is something that we cannot unfortunately ignore. I think white dating is different because most of the men actually are in their. In their deeper masculine energy just based on how they're raised and how society is built up for them. Whereas our communities, the, the.
The energy dynamics are a bit different. Okay.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
