Anwar White argues that good fathers make strong partners, not liabilities. Many women avoid dating men with kids, fearing neglect or irresponsibility, but responsible fathers often prove more family-oriented and committed than men without children.
Destiny said, your opinion on dating men with kids. One of the things that I've realized, and this is especially true for black women, is that they don't want to do that. They want to date a guy with kids. And if you are 40 years old or older, the majority of the guys are going to have kids. Yeah. So please understand that if that is your thing, you are cutting down your. You're. You're narrowing your net and making it harder for yourself. I think a lot of people don't want to have. Don't want to date guys with kids because.
One, they're already assuming that they aren't responsible if they have like all of these kids. But two, oftentimes it will.
It will trigger kind of an inner child womb because many of us grow up without the attention that we need. And so they think, oh, my God, if I get with a guy that already has kids, his kids will become number one and I will never get the attention that I want or need. Not necessarily the case if the guy knows how to manage his time and his heart. Well, yeah. I actually think that guys with kids, depending on if he is a great father or not, make the best partners. Right. And are very family oriented.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
