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What is my opinion on "If he wanted to, he would'?

Name: What is my opinion on "If he wanted to, he would'?
Uploaded: 2024-05-29T13:27:48+00:00
Duration: 53 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue by dating coach Anwar White (references 14 years of coaching) responding to the saying "If he wanted to, he would." He rejects…

29 May 2024 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue by dating coach Anwar White (references 14 years of coaching) responding to the saying "If he wanted to, he would." He rejects the maxim as 100% correct, arguing that even when a partner is "good enough," lack of action can stem from insufficient skills, capabilities, or inability to follow through rather than lack of desire.

Kel said, what are your opinions on if he wanted to, he would.
I don't think that that's 100% correct, because it still implies that.
He doesn't like that you're not good enough for him to want to. Right. And one of the things that I've learned as a dating coach for 14 years is that even if you are, quote, unquote, good enough, he still might not have the skills or the capabilities to do what he needs to do.
Right. There are beautiful, amazing women out there, and there are some men that can't get it done.
Can'T make it happen.
You know?
So I'm. I'm. I'm not someone that's like, if he wanted to, he would. I'm more of.
If he can, he will.