Anwar White argues that being extremely attractive actually makes dating harder. Very attractive women face intimidated men who won't approach, low-value men with nothing to lose, and jealousy from other women. Even men on their level prefer easier conquests.
Ellie said, can you speak more on dating for pretty women? Yeah, there is, you know, usually there's this thing called pretty privilege. And I think that that is true for most areas of one's life. But when you're super pretty like me.
It can work against you in dating. Because here's the thing. Guys that are, if you're, let's say, a 9 or a 10, the 9 or a tens guys will date women that are like notches below. Let's say a guy's a 9, he will date a 5 to a 10, and he will go for the girls that are, let's say, at a different level than you because they're easier to get and they'll put out easier. Right. And then you'll be freaking out because you're like, why is he going for her and not me? Because he gets to do whatever he wants with her and he can't do whatever he wants with you. And then the other thing is that most of the guys that are not on your level will not approach you because they're intimidated by you and they know that you're expensive and they don't. Probably don't have the, the income financially, intellectually, emotionally, or physically. Yeah. And the gag is that the guys that do approach you are actually not on your level. Like those are the two, the threes, the fours that don't have anything to lose will approach you and you'll be like, why are these guys approaching me? Like I'm so outside of their league. Right. It's because they have nothing to lose and they won't. They're going for the home run girl.
So that's part of it. The other part is it's hard because oftentimes too women are jealous of you. So they will try to block you or they will.
You know, they'll be shady toward you and having that energy around like, like at a club, at a bar. It's tough because then now you feel like everybody's against you.
I was on a podcast recently and a woman didn't like what I said. And then they had another podcast episode about my podcast episode because it went viral and they were saying, oh my God, I think his clients aren't that attractive. Clothes girl. Half of my clients are drop dead model gorgeous because of what I just said. And it's harder to date as a pretty woman, like a gorgeous, drop dead pretty woman.
Because no one will really approach you. And then you're thinking.
Am I desirable? Yeah, you are. It's just men know they don't have it so they won't even try it, for the most part.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
