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What is the Romantic Part of Dating?

Name: What is the Romantic Part of Dating?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:43:41.639663
Duration: 7 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short advice clip (YouTube) by Anwar White arguing that people—particularly women—are often conditioned to treat initial meetings as inherently romantic…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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Short advice clip (YouTube) by Anwar White arguing that people—particularly women—are often conditioned to treat initial meetings as inherently romantic. The speaker urges viewers to expand their dating pool, stop expecting instant romance at first contact, and reframe the "romantic" part of dating as the process of getting to know a real match rather than the act of finding someone.

Joe said, how to not get hung up on the first guy you meet. But expand your dating poll. Please realize that.
Finding your guy is not the romantic part of dating. So many women have been conditioned to think that each and every time you talk to a guy, it's going to be romantic. It's going to be, sorry, I thought somebody was right in front of my house. Girl, I don't play that.
Oh, my God, this is the one girl. We have to let that romantic part go. The romantic part of dating is like getting to know your actual guy and finding out that it's a match. But the finding the guy, that's not romantic. So you're going to have to literally step away from it all.