A short YouTube monologue advising women about relationship behavior around Valentine’s Day. The speaker warns that some men will break up or ‘ghost’ before Valentine’s Day because they lack emotional capacity to show devotion, and emphasizes the importance of being courted (having a partner pursue and make plans) as a sign of seriousness. The tone is candid, advisory, and cautionary.
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Someone said the apps are really rough right now. Yeah, February is a slow month.
And if you're in a relationship in February, honey, this week, Valentine's Week is always going to be the Hunger Games. Guys will try to break up with you before Valentine's Day and they will try to break up with you before Valentine's Day because Valentine's Day is a day where a man has to express his true devotion and emotional connection to you. And a lot of guys might not be there or have it or even have the capacity for that. So oftentimes they will ghost break up. And it's not just because I don't want to do a gift. It's just often because the feeling is not there. So there's nothing to represent.
The non existent feeling that they they truly have.
Yeah.
So.
Don'T give the if these guys are not your boyfriends, don't give them your. Don't give them a gift.
T said what if women have cheated on him in all of his past relationships? That he's probably not good in bed and he probably is not emotionally supportive.
Take that as.
Something.
Is up.
Some guys say this to kind of gain sympathy points. Whether it's true or not. If it is true.
One his level of discernment does not give me security and it shouldn't give you security.
Okay.
Kayanis have been talking for a month and no Valentine's plans. He doesn't have to give have Valentine's plans with you. Y' all are just. See you're talking.
In my program. I want to make sure that my ladies are being courted and there's a difference. There's a different energy here where he's doing most of the pursuing and things like that. If you don't have Valentine's plans with your person.
Then.
There'S probably, there's. There's not seriousness there. He doesn't have one. He doesn't have to have Valentine's plans with you.
But someone who is serious wants to have Valentine's plans with you.
