What is your dating app like rate? #datingadvice #boundaries #fyp #singleblackfemale #singleblackwom

Hey, girl. So I have a question for the single ladies. What's your like rate? What is the rate in which you like someone online out of 20 profiles that you see? Research tells us that 5% is the average for women that are dating online. That's one out of every 20 profiles. I know that if you online date this way, you are going to be in a world of trouble. So let me know in the comments. Out of 20 profiles, how many on average you like? I'm pretty sure it's close to one. I actually want you to be closer to four or five. Why? Because roughly 20% of the guys that are single right now are ready to be in a relationship and you want to align with that proportion. Yeah. So if you're not at 4 or 5 per 20 profiles, we gotta like a little bit more and engage in a bit more conversation. Why is it dangerous to only like 1 out of 20 profiles or less? Well, because here's the thing, girl. It will actually create a love scarcity mindset because you don't like many people. So when he likes you back, you are actually going to like, first of all freak out because you've already put him on a pedestal. Secondly, you are going to want to try to make something happen with him because you think that, oh my gosh, it's going to take a long time to actually find someone just like him. And if things don't work out and probability tells you me that it won't because I've done this work as a dating coach for 12 years, 97% of the guys will not work out or you won't even go on a third date with them. You'll be overly devastated because you've had all of these expectations because he's checked some boxes, right. That's like four or five people out of 20. So that it doesn't feel like we are putting all of our eggs in one basket and we're not hyper focusing on one guy that we're engaging. We're having fun. We're talking our ish and we're seeing who ris to the top. Yeah, you don't want to put your money on a racehorse. You want to just observe and see who wins. As my granny used to say. We used to ask her all the time, granny, who you going for? As we would, you know, hang out together during holidays and watch sporting events. And she would always say, I'm going for the winner. Put a lot of people in your dating race, girl. And whoever wins, that's who you're going for. Don't put expectations on these guys just because they check superficial boxes. I hope this helps. If you want to learn more about how to do this and how to date with strategy, definitely book a call with me. Otherwise, I want to hear in the comments, girl, what's your like rate?