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What kind of woman do you need to become to attract your man?

Name: What kind of woman do you need to become to attract your man?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:43:31.315596
Duration: 18 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) reframes the common dating question of where to meet "good, generous, provider" men into a question about who…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) reframes the common dating question of where to meet "good, generous, provider" men into a question about who a woman must become to attract such men. The speaker argues that attracting high-quality partners is primarily internal work ("95% internal, 5% external") and criticizes manipulative dating tactics as short-term, harmful, and likely to create negative consequences for others. The stated goal is to prepare women to be ready for the best, long-lasting relationship of their lives.

Tybr said, what are good places to meet good men, generous men, provider men? There's not a special place where you're going to find these men. I think it's the wrong question. The right question is, what kind of woman do I need to become to actually attract those men?
I could tell you to go to an airport lounge and go to conferences, girl, but if you're messy and you're judgmental and you're a bitch, girl, you're not going to find those men. You're not going to attract those men. My work is 95% internal.
5% external. I could be like half of these other dating coaches out here and show you manipulative ways to get guys. But that is not long lasting and that does not heal you. And it actually makes dating harder for the rest of the women out there. Because after you use a guy, after you sprinkle, sprinkle a guy who is nice and giving to you and you use him, he's going to come back into the market and he's going to be bitter and he's going to treat men. He's going to bring karma that you created and give that to other women out there. So that's why my work is about making sure that you are the woman that's ready for the best relationship of your life. Ultimately.