If you keep dating feminine men, you might be projecting strong masculine energy from your upbringing. The speaker explains how women who lack feminine emotional care attract either toxic men or men seeking a maternal role, and suggests balancing both energies to find partners with leadership and emotional availability.
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Rebellious said, I'm attracting mostly feminine men. It's probably because you're masculine. Relationships are about compliments, okay? So if you're in your masculine energy, and unfortunately many black and brown women are, just based on how many of us are raised and based on the lack of feminine, energetic love as we're growing up, you will attract.
Hyper toxic masculine men who will want to forcibly submit you into your feminine or highly feminized men that are looking for a mother.
That's it. So part of this work and part of what I help my clients do is help balance the scales so that we have a good amount of feminine, a good amount of masculine, so that we can be, you know, attracting those, what I call Alphabet men that are a little bit, that are alpha, that can take charge, that can provide, but also that are beta, that have that emotional availability.
Okay, that's important. Now, if you don't want to be in your feminine Energy, girl, is 2024 about to be 2025? Girl, be in whatever energy you want to be in. If you're in your masculine energy, then get with a feminine, energetic man. Girl, get with a nurse, get with a teacher, get with a house husband, get with an actor.