Short video by dating coach Anwar White (for Black and Brown women) listing professions whose women reportedly struggle to find love. He names nurturing/’over-giving’ professions (nurses, teachers, doctors, therapists, social workers, hairdressers, flight attendants, HR/DEI) and explains that habitual giving and centering others can make receiving and masculine-attractive dynamics harder; he offers coaching help.
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Hey girl, do you want to know the top professions that women have who have the most difficulty finding love? Well, girl, I'm gonna give it to you. My name is Anwar White. I'm a dating coach for black and brown women. And I want to let you know I've been doing this work for 13 years. Roughly 2/3 of my clients have these.
Nurses, teachers, doctors, therapists, social workers, hairdressers, flight attendants. And you know why? These professions are nurturing professions. These professions are focused on centering other people. Oh, I also forgot HR and DEI professionals. These professions are focused on centering another person and that's what happens and translates into your dating life. So you will make the man number one and center him. And what happens is that you will be a second class citizen in your own relationship. These are also giving, or as I like to call them, over giving professions. And also when you're in a profession like that, you're used to giving, giving, giving, giving and actually not receiving. And men that are in their healthy masculine energy will want to give to you, which means that you need to learn how to receive if you are in the habit of giving and over giving. Giving is a masculine, energetic trait. So giving is providing, which means that you are going to be in your masculine energy and that is going to turn off a lot of masculine, energetic men. And this is why it is so hard to be in those professions based on your personality and how you engage with other people. Now, it doesn't mean that you're a lost cost or anything, girl. It just means that we have work to do to break certain patterns so that you can be in the best relationship of your life. If you want to learn how to do this, book a call. I would love to help you. All right. Be well.
