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What Questions Should You Prepare for a Date?

Name: What Questions Should You Prepare for a Date?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:44:25.845512
Duration: 48 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) advising against treating first dates like interviews. The speaker recommends treating date conversations like…

7 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) advising against treating first dates like interviews. The speaker recommends treating date conversations like talks with a best friend—sharing stories, discussing topical subjects, and probing someone’s stance. The speaker gives a concrete example (mentioning a new Britney Spears book and a reported abortion involving Justin) to illustrate starting a conversation and assessing a date’s views; they dismiss typical interview questions (siblings, upbringing, job) as robotic.

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Hello. Marian said. Hi, coach. Can you name three good questions to ask on a first date? No, I don't really do that. My whole. My whole thing is whatever kind of conversation that you have with your best friend that week. Those are the sorts of subjects that I want you to talk about. I don't want the conversations to just be a question and answer. That's an interview. But I want it to be about stories you tell or subjects that you talk about and figuring out what your stance is on it. So, like, I know that I would be talking to my best friend about this new Britney Spears book that's coming out. So if I were dating right now, I would say, hey, did you hear about this new Britney Spears book is coming out? Apparently her and Justin had an abortion. That's crazy to me.
Right? And start talking about that. See what his stance is. What do you think about that? If he doesn't know, then I explain it and vice versa.
That's much more interesting than, how many siblings do you have? Where did you grow up? Do you like your job? Girl, that shit is, like, robotic.