A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) responding to a listener question: "What should I ask a guy to keep him talking?" The speaker's core advice is to not try to prompt a silent man—if he won't converse naturally, move on and invest attention elsewhere. The speaker emphasizes honest feedback from friends and frames their blunt counsel as well-intentioned.
Courtney said, what should I ask a guy to keep him talking? Don't ask him anything if he's not talking by himself, girl. He's a mute. And treat him as such.
There's nothing to talk about. Keep it moving. You need to be talking to three other men. Like, what are we doing?
There are men that are going to want to talk your heads off.
Respectfully speaking, if he's not talking to you, he doesn't like you, so we need to move on. Right? He's not into it. I don't mean that to be rude. I just. I try to keep it real with. With the ladies that I'm talking to because, no, shade, sometimes your best friends will not keep it real with you. They will want you to feel good, and so they will hide the truth from you. And they actually do more of a disservice than a service when it comes to your dating. So.
Talk to your dating life with that friend. That will tell you what the T is, whether it hurts your feelings or not.
And I know that sounds really bad, but that person gives a shit about you and gives a shit about how you're thinking about your dating life, and they want you to succeed.
In the long run. They don't care about what happens now because what happens now doesn't actually matter as much as what the end result will be. Okay? And I try to do that. I try to keep it real. And the intention is always pure, just FYI.
