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What should you ask if you want to message the guy first?

Name: What should you ask if you want to message the guy first?
Uploaded: 2025-02-10T15:00:33+00:00
Duration: 1 min 25 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short YouTube monologue offering dating-app texting advice for women: encourages messaging a man first but warns against opening with questions…

10 Feb 2025 · 1 min

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Short YouTube monologue offering dating-app texting advice for women: encourages messaging a man first but warns against opening with questions. Emphasizes using playful banter and flirting (not workplace-style, ‘HR’ or Teams energy) to make dating enjoyable and less exhausting; speaker mentions coaching clients to use light teasing (e.g., "cat got your tongue?" with a black cat emoji).

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D said, texting first on dating apps. If you. If you like the guy, why not? But don't start off with a question. I think oftentimes what's happening is that so many women are driving these conversations, and it's making. It's making you feel exhausted when you're having these conversations. Don't do that. Right. Put a statement in there. So this week, I help my clients learn how to and taught them how to banter and flirt, which is a very important part of dating, because. No, shade. A lot of us are acting like we're talking to colleagues while we're dating, and that's a big old snore. No shade. It's giving slack. It's giving Microsoft Teams energy, and you got to learn how to banter. So I'm saying all of this because when I taught my clients how to flirt, they were saying things like when they were texting first on the apps. Oh, you haven't messaged me yet. I guess cat got your tongue? And then they put a black cat in there, Right? I'm teaching my clients how to make dating fun. If dating is not fun for you, you probably need to come into my program.
Yeah. So that you can talk your shit, because a lot of y' all are not talking your.
Oh, y' all got called out, given HR mode.
Yeah.
Lame. O. McLamo.
Don't do that, girl.