Anwar White coaches Black and Brown women to stop doing everything themselves and start asking men for help. When you handle everything, you attract takers and mama's boys instead of providers. Shift from self-reliant caregiver to someone who expects provision.
Simroyalty said, I have such a hard time asking men for things, but should I be asking. Yeah, everything.
Pretend you have no arms and no legs, girl. Everybody should be helping you. And this feels really, really hard for black and brown women because that's not how we are taught. But like, I did roll call for the white girls. That's how they're taught. Many of them at all, many of them.
They are conditioned to believe that people are there to do things for them. And I want you all to do the same, because that's how you're going to attract a provider, someone who wants to give to you. Many of us are just like, we got to do everything for everyone. And when you are in that mindset, you are literally attracting the takers. That's why you're like, oh, my God, I'm always attracting the narcissist. I'm always attracting the. The mama boys. It's because your energy is actually the complement to that. So you got to switch your energy.
Yeah. That's what's important here.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
