A caller finds a hickey on her boyfriend who says it's a scratch. The advice: don't confront him directly. Calling him out might just teach him to hide better next time.
So my boy. Okay. Sahara said so. My boyfriend has a clear hickey on his neck, but he said it's a scratch. What do I do?
Nothing.
You step away because you already know it's a hickey. Don't let this man lie to you in your face.
You are not dumb.
You already know what's up. A lot of us.
Want to call a man out when you already know.
What the tea is.
Don't do that.
The reason why you don't want to do that, why you don't want to call a man out when you know that he is acting a fool is because you will make him smarter.
In the way in which he hides his indiscretions and his shady behavior. And you will make it harder for the next woman.
To, you know, see what the real tea is. There's a reason why all of these guys are playing all of these women.
Because they get smarter the more that you call them out. Oh, she didn't like. She didn't like that excuse. I have to come up with a new one. Oh, she saw that text message. So now I gotta rename the person that sent me that text message.
Oh, she asked me where I was going. Now I gotta get my friend to cover for me that next time.
You see that you already know what's.
Going on, you know, what you say?
You know what?
I'm not really feeling a connection anymore, so I'm gonna.
I'm gonna have to break up with you, but I want to wish you the best of luck.
No yelling, no screaming. No. Why are you doing this? What are you doing? What's going on? No detective work. No SVU detectives. None of that.
Because you already know.
And he will never tell you the truth until you have 12 different cases against him.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
