What should you do when a guy keeps staring but doesn't make a move?

Anwar White says stop waiting for him to make the first move. Point and invite him over, smile, start talking, give a compliment, or ask for help. The old passive flirt style doesn't work anymore.
Felicia said, but what about the guy who keeps staring at you, making deep eye contact but doesn't make the move? Then you've got to make it work. Like Ms. Sierra said, honey, what does that mean? So here's the gag.
Sharon said, don't talk about eight cups. Why? Girl.
We can't wait for our love life. We have to create it. And if this is shaking, I'm sorry, because it's on a bed, honey. And she gained a few pounds during spring break in Cancun. You're gonna have to create your love life. So what does that mean? Deep eye contact? Do a couple of things, girl. Point to him and tell him to come over here. Girl, the man will do exactly what you tell them to do. That's what I want you all to know. You have so much more power than you think. If you want to play this traditional game, try it. But here's the thing. Back in the 40s and 50s, girl, they weren't just standing there. They were dropping their handkerchief to try to get the man to come over. So you got a smile, you got to wink. You got to do whatever or right. You can get near him and start a conversation. You can say, give him a compliment. You can ask him to help you with something. You can ask for a recommendation. There are a variety of different ways to engage with these men. Honey, I just. In my program, just FYI, if you're interested, you can definitely book a call with me. The link is in my bio. In my program, we talked about figuring out what your flirt style is and then going to places that align with your flirt style so that the flirts can be really like natural. So what I'm hearing from you is you not really doing anything. You just being cute and mute. So that's more of a traditional flirt style. Traditional flirt style is not going to get you much of anywhere these days. No shade. So something to think about.
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