A guy told you he was 34 but he's actually 46. Ask him why he lied, but don't ignore it. Someone who lies about something that basic before you've even met isn't worth the risk.
Okay, let me see. A guy who has been consistent since I met him, just admitted he lied to me about his age, told me he is 34, but he is 46. I'm 35. Red flag date is on Saturday.
I don't really talk in red flags, but I will say this.
If something like that happens because some people will change their ages on apps to get more likes or to see more people, I generally like to have that.
Have them share that on the first physical date or like before the first date or, you know, before the phone date, if you have it right. There's sometimes people do that on the apps. So if he has shared this with you before the first date.
Thank him, but also let him know, like, ask him, like, well, why did he do that? Was this something that he actually shared with you verbally or via text? Or was this something that you read on a profile? Okay, you said you met him in person. Okay, so he's liar, liar, pants on fire.
You can't build something with a liar.
Yeah.
Nothing can start with a lie.
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