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What should you do when a guy claims he's obsessed with you even though you haven't met?

Name: What should you do when a guy claims he's obsessed with you even though you haven't met?
Uploaded: 2024-05-14T13:45:45+00:00
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Description: Anwar White on what it means when someone claims obsession before you've met. He says it's less about red flags and more about how it makes you feel, and…

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Anwar White on what it means when someone claims obsession before you've met. He says it's less about red flags and more about how it makes you feel, and whether you trust someone's judgment when they've drawn big conclusions from almost nothing.

Looks, look it. Snad said, is it a red flag for a guy to be a little obsessed with you when you haven't met in person?
I don't talk in flags, I talk in feelings. So the question for you is how does that make you feel? A lot of people who get obsessed really quickly, you have to question their decision making process because what's happening is that they're making a conclusion about you and they don't even have 95% of the data. So is that someone that you want to partner with, to make decisions with, if they're making decisions based on only having 5% of the information that they need, that's the question that you need to ask yourself ultimately.
Right?
When someone is obsessed with you, what, what they have done is that they have painted their own narrative for that 95%.
And that could be anything. He's obsessed with the 95% that he's painted. He's not obsessed with you. He can't be. He doesn't know you.
And therein lies the issue.