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What should you do when the guy complains about spending money on you?

Name: What should you do when the guy complains about spending money on you?
Uploaded: 2024-08-11T12:00:55+00:00
Duration: 5 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue advising a listener whose partner complained about spending money on them. The speaker says the complaint likely stems from the…

11 Aug 2024 · 0 min

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A short YouTube monologue advising a listener whose partner complained about spending money on them. The speaker says the complaint likely stems from the partner feeling unappreciated rather than the act of spending itself, and recommends adopting an attitude of gratitude and acknowledgement when a partner spends on you.

Girl Girl said he complained about spending money on me. Wtf? No one forced him.
It is probably because he doesn't feel like you are appreciating or acknowledging what he is doing for you. If you're giving an energy of expectation or requirement, that's ugly. It's nasty work. We have to be in an energy of gratitude when these guys are doing things for us. Okay.
So it's not that he's not complaining about spending money. He's complaining because he's not feeling appreciated. And that's probably a ball that you've dropped, but you need to pick back up.