Short YouTube monologue (Anwar White) advising people who are ghosted not to overanalyze why someone disappeared. The speaker emphasizes honoring the observable fact that the person left, warns that charisma or good conversation doesn't equal being a good partner, and rejects relying on 'vibes' as sufficient reason to stay invested.
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S said a guy ghosted me mid conversation. What does that mean? Black girl from Dallas. The convo was so good. It doesn't matter what it means. Our job is not to figure out the why. Our job is just to honor the what. And the what is he disappeared, Girl. See no evil, talk to no evil. He's out. It doesn't matter. It could be a variety of things. It doesn't matter. His mama got sick, he got sick. He decided to peace out. He. The reason doesn't matter. And there can be 3,600 reasons. I can give you 10 right now, but it's still not gonna matter. And you make. You bring up a really good point that I want to offer to each and every one of the ladies that are here, and thank you all for being here. And if there's anything that I'm saying that's resonating with you, definitely tap the screen. You're saying that the conversation is so good. There are a lot of great conversationalists that are bad boyfriends. Don't trip just because the conversation is good.
There are a lot of people that know how to connect with everyone because they're super charismatic and oftentimes they're toxic and narcissistic doesn't mean that they're great partners or boyfriends. Yeah. So I want to offer to anyone that is listening that.
Vibes are out.
You hear me? Doesn't matter if I. We were vibing, girl. The Vibe magazine went out of publication in 2016, 2017. We're not doing Vibe anymore. You hear me?
I don't want to hear a conversation with so good.
Girl. You can go to better help and have a great conversation.
