Short advice monologue (YouTube) by Anwar White about handling situations where white men stare because they assume a Black woman prefers Black men. The speaker recommends giving clear signals (‘green lights’), sometimes initiating conversation, and using light, playful lines to invite approachability.
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Hi said what do you do when the white boys keep staring? Girl they're going to stare. They're going to stare a lot because they think that you're not really into them so they're never going to really approach you because they think that oh my God, she's just focused on black dudes. So you're going to have to give them mad like green light life. You're going to have to and sometimes you might have to start the conversations with them, right? I always tell you know, my girls just be like girl, go up to him and be like you've been staring quite a bit. Should I be are you flirting or should I be scared?
And then he'll smile and say flirting and then you'll say well why haven't you come up to me? And then you have him melting like M and M's in your hand. Girl I'm telling you these boys are E Z.