Anwar White says when your partner calls your goals unrealistic, he's really saying they're unrealistic for him. A supportive partner offers concrete plans to help you achieve them, not reasons why you can't. White claims 80% of guys aren't doing this.
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June 7, 2024.
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Coco said what to do. When your boyfriend constantly says the life you want isn't realistic, then I want you to finish that sentence and I want you to say for you.
Because it's not realistic for him, right? He's telling you exactly what he's capable of and what he's not capable of.
Here's what, what I want to hear. Based on the life that you're explaining to him, your future husband is going to say, great, here's how I'm going to make that happen.
I was just talking with one of my clients and they, she was having a serious conversation with her guy and she was like, here's what I want in two years. Here's what I want in five years. He's like, yeah, we'll do it. Let's do it.
Oh, I want to do a non profit. Okay, here's, here's the name of, here's the, here's the name of it. Let's do it together. He's going to be supporting anything and everything that you want.
But like, that's one of the major signs that I look for when it comes to a man that's ready for a healthy relationship. Because most of these men are in it for them, they're not in it for you. So you want to see, how does he support you? What is he doing to support your, your professional life? What is he doing to support your goals, your hobbies, your, your personal life, your personal relationships? How is he moving you forward? How is he helping you develop?
Because I will tell you this, 80% of the guys out there are not doing that and have no intention of doing that.
