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What should you do when you're attracting men who only want to hook up?

Name: What should you do when you're attracting men who only want to hook up?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:44:24.589998
Duration: 25 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short video (YouTube) discussion by Anwar White about online dating dynamics and how profile presentation can attract men primarily seeking casual…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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A short video (YouTube) discussion by Anwar White about online dating dynamics and how profile presentation can attract men primarily seeking casual hookups. Speaker notes an empirical observation that roughly one-third of men in her research focus on hooking up and advises that if most men you attract want hookups, your profile may be signaling sexual availability (e.g., showing cleavage/skin).

Bria B. Said, it seems like the sites, the men just want to hook up. So in my research, roughly a third of the men are really hyper focused on just hooking up. Now if you find yourself with a majority of men wanting to hook up, then there's probably a profile disconnect where you are telling men that that is what you're leading with your body. You got some cleavage, you showing butt, you're showing skin. That's what they're going to think.